Your post actually made me think a little about my experience. I raced this last weekend for the first time since '07, and I did enjoy myself, even though I wasn't in any kind of shape for the bike or run. But why did I enjoy myself? My performance was downright mediocre compared to what I used to be able to do. For that, a bit of context is necessary.
In my younger days, I was an OK triathlete, pretty decent cyclist, and a good swimmer, and fairly active on the tri scene back in the motherland. Then I moved to Nova Scotia in '05, and tried to continue with tri's and cycling (I hadn't swum since university, so that wasn't even on the radar). I gave that a half assed effort for a couple of years, then did my last race in '07. I did run through '08, but stopped after that season.
Fast forward to last year, I joined a masters swim team, developed some pretty good friendships with some of the members there. One of my lanemates is a triathlete, she competes in a bunch of races. So a few weeks ago I decided to sign up for the Sprint distance race on a whim. No big deal, cost me $100 including a one day license and a donation to charity. Race fee was $55, I think.
The difference between 2005-07 and 2015 is that I show up to the race, and there are faces I know. I can talk to them, share stories, and will actually see those people again. When I first moved here, I knew almost no-one. Just my ex-wife and her family, and none of them did any kind of sports at all, let alone triathlons. Now, I know people, it is a social event as much as anything, and that might keep me with my toe in the triathlon waters.
The reason I enjoyed running in '08 was because I had an awesome training partner. We didn't run together every day, but often enough. Then we both moved jobs, and it was hard to get together with her to run, so I kinda got bored and lost interest.
If I was just swimming on my own every day, not knowing anyone, just doing my laps, pretty sure I'd be bored and quit swimming too. I do swim on my own, but I swim with the club 4-5 times per week, and go to club social events, and at meets there is a ton of time to chat with friends between races.
It isn't the racing and training itself that is appealing to me. The racing and training are just excuses to have social gatherings, and the fact that I get a bit of exercise is an added bonus.
All that said, don't misunderstand me. I'm competitive as fuck, and hate to lose. Hate it hate it hate it. (in endurance sports, I think everyone needs to define for themselves what "losing" is, but that's another matter) So I'm not on the race course just lollygagging along, or slacking off in swim practice. But I keep returning to it because of the friendships.
Swimming Workout of the Day: Favourite Swim Sets: 2020 National Masters Champion - M50-54 - 50m Butterfly