I understand where you're coming from. Just a word of warning though. I have a Reynolds AR80 wheel set (80mm front and back) and a deep wheel on the front definitely gets to feeling unstable with any kind of cross wind. Keep that in mind when you're considering offers. My very limited experience suggests <50mm would probably be the best all around wheel.

I'm looking at a 32mm wheel set for another bike right now with the intent of being able to toss the front on my Shiv on windy days.