This is where I am, too, for the most part. I like pink well enough -- what I do NOT like is having the choice be a) "women's-color kit" (regardless of the actual color); b) "men's-color kit" (which will not fit me, I wear an XS or S in women's sizes); c) no kit from this club.

For me, the choice is an easy one -- no kit from that club. I will train in my racing team colors even when at club events -- my racing team is completely separate from my local club, and although the team is headed by a man, there is just one print for all team members (to match his; it's blue and gold). But it does upset me that I paid money to belong to an organization that segregates the club like that, especially in contemporary society where many people feel that gender is more fluid, not binary, and not stereotypical. "You are a woman, so you have to wear the women's [pink] clothes" goes against pretty much every fiber of my being.