squid wrote:
There's a group of us middle age guys that meet for happy hour every friday after work. One of the guys, about 57 years old, will always address a young female server (usually in her 20's) by saying "what's your name, darling?" and when asked what he would like, will sometimes say "For you to tell me when your shift is over." It even creeps me out! lolI don't know how I missed this one. What the hell?
Two things:
1) As somebody who worked as a waitress/bartender for many years, let me tell you, you do not want to say shit like that to whoever is the main interface between your drinks and food and you. I never did anything like that, but, oh hells yes, it is done.
2) It might be wise and a little less painful for you, if you'd like to continue going out with this on-the-surface-seeming-douche, to point out to your 57(how he has made it this long without a hefty bitch slap is a little beyond me) year old friend that his M.O. has never worked. NEVER. Does the waitress ever go out with him? Does he ever get the digits? And, the name she gives him? Nope, that's not her's either.
Squid, in all seriousness, you seem too cool and, um, you know, cognizant, to hang out with this guy. What's the deal?
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luckytotri: Feb 12, 13 18:34