OK, I need some opinions from people I don't know to make really important decisions.

#1) So, if I think I am in love with a "fun, fit female", am I?

One female friend said to me, "if you have to ask, you are"

So I am leaning toward the idea that I am in love, since I can't stop thinking about my lovely friend after only a month, and it's not because of sex (I know how horny triathletes are!). I was struck by how giving and sweet she is after the first fifteen minutes of date #1. We had a beer and simply walked around town wit our dogs for two hours or so. Every time after has been amazing too. She is a runner, and super smart which are both appealing to me as I like to be challenged intellectually, and fitness is a must.

#2) So if you all confirm what I probably know, should I tell her? We've only seen each other half a dozen times but have both expressed that we feel like teenagers again (both in 40's) and we have spent HOURS! on the telephone at night talking about anything and everything.

I am counting the hours until I see her again this weekend!