I sold something on a different site and had the opposite experience. The buyer sent me an address just to calculate the shipping. He then paid through Paypal and as a seller I was required to use the verified Paypal address or lose the seller protections. However, it was the same city, so I didn't notice that it was a different address than the one emailed to me a week prior, especially since the calculated shipping amount was exactly the same. He was livid, and was actually a jerk about it, blaming me for him not knowing how to change the address in Paypal (and also him not notifying me that the address in PP was different). To make matters worse, he didn't have a car to get the item from the address it went to. Fortunately, it was the address to his parent's second home, but they weren't going to be home for a couple of weeks. After being on the receiving end of name calling, I ended up sending him enough money to cover cab fare. I really shouldn't have felt obligated to, but it was easier to do that and just be done with it and also maintain my perfect track record as a seller.
I responded to his concerns almost immediately, and it sounds like your situation would be handled much better if the seller were to do the same. As others have said, it sounds like it could still be within a reasonable timeframe, but the seller really should give you solid expectations.
Francois wrote:
Not long ago, I purchased an item here. In our first PM exchange, I indicated that I lived in Gainesville, FL. After finalizing the sale, I also indicated clearly in the note area on paypal that my correct address is 'XXX in Gainesville, FL' because for some reason, paypal keeps resetting my address to my old address. After one week I check on the item and realized it was sent to the old address. I contacted the seller who took a few days to answer as he was away on vacation and explained what the situation was. I told him I would check with the landlord since we were renting last year. The landlord went to the place and was told that the item was returned. I have contacted the seller to check whether he has received it back and just received a short 'I'll let you know' email back. It's not a lot of money. $100. But...it's still $100 and I clearly indicated what the correct address was. So, at what point do you contact paypal for a dispute? Or is it just my fault? The address on paypal is wrong and the note about the correct address doesn't change that?
The sale was done before July 4 weekend.