Litemike wrote:
Unfortunately, I am unable to answer the question “should standards be lowered for women” I’m generally quite conservative, means I’d rather see our tax dollars be spent better, however I really have to think hard and long at social issues. Now, situations change with time, but I also have to think to myself about privileges I may have benefited from in my life, just from my personality and how I operate. I have a heck of a social game and feel I may have been given opportunities that I may not have been the best choice for. I definitely made good on my opportunities, and in some cases surpassed the chosen ones. Therefore I always try to see beyond the obvious, you know, a guy who clawed his way up and took the hard road. Maybe alcohol, maybe upbringing, or did poor in high school but really wants it. And that is where I feel it becomes grey- do women REALLY want this or do they want equality at the expense of the integrity of the the Corps? Being the first is difficult, you don’t have a great deal of support like others. My dad and his dad were veterans of wars as well, did I have a leg up due to this? Sort of like the lawyers I know- all of them have parents and family in law. They had a support that others might not have had. But after a good go of it, those people can succeed. So, as with some Marines I remember in my platoon and company, they got away with certain things, maybe curfew, maybe PFT scores or overweight. So, I try to remember a guy in boot camp with gang tats and when confronted by Drill Instructors, he said he wanted a new chance-and came to the Corps to get it.
Awesome response. Again, much to think about. I was Inspector-Instructor for the 4th Medical Battalion during one of my green side officer tours. We had a Marine reservist who actually turned out to be an illegal immigrant. He'd honest-to-God sneaked over the border by Chula Vista and somehow managed to enlist. If I remember correctly, he'd made it to LCPL and it was when his SRB was being reviewed by his monitor to see where he was in terms of a future promotion to CPL and that was when he was flagged. He was a diary clerk or some other admin MOS in our H&S company. 300 PFT score, top marks on his pros and cons. A hard charger. No one even thought about his Spanish accent, because that wasn't unusual in San Diego/Miramar/Camp Pendleton.
Anyway, he was busted for "fraudulent" enlistment and we were directed to discharge him, barring any exceptional circumstances that would delay, but not prevent, it. I don't know what Border Patrol or ICE or whatever they were called back then was going to do. But his was a case worth fighting for, though, because he was an excellent Marine by all standards, except that one, and even the reserve and I&I SMAJs were hoping to keep him in. The actual CO of the battalion (a reserve Navy medical department O6) also wanted him to stay.
My battalion's I&I SMAJ (he was an FTS Marine, though they're called something else these days) and I forwarded his case back up to HQMC and MarResFor (back then, it was Marine Reserve Force, in New Orleans, though nowadays it's MARFORRES), with testimonials, statements of support and so forth. There was even some input from his congressman, who was hoping the Marine Corps could do something until he could obtain permanent resident status or whatnot. When they received it, they directed us to retain him in a drill status "below the line" (not in an actual boat space or line on the TO, in other words) while they considered things.
Thirty days later came the final order: discharge him ASAP. We were all disappointed big time. The directive was that standards were standards and they existed for a reason (they even sent a Marine O6 out to Miramar to nicely explain things to me, because I made a minor fuss about it when the directive came back. That was an "enlightening" conversation, believe me ;-). It would also have sent a bad message to other Marines if they'd retained him.
I also remember we carried 3 infantry Marines (03XXs) who'd been in the Battle of Khafji in the First Gulf War, running and gunning all night and moving from building to building, one step ahead of Iraqi forces, calling in supporting fires and generally being instrumental in US forces winning that battle. Unfortunately, the Corps had no active duty boat spaces for them about a year after the war ended and a minor drawdown occurred and they needed a place where they could be "kept" until boat spaces for them in a reserve infantry unit of the 23rd Marines (4th MarDiv... we were 4th FSSG) opened up. So I did the I&Is from 23rd Marines a favor and carried them below the line and they were able to stay Marine Corps. They were lost for a short time, when they drilled for the first time with a Medical Battalion, believe me.
But the Marine Corps is HARD, as you know better than I, and they could have easily ended up out on the street completely until they could join the National Guard or something (my wife's a Guard officer; there are plenty of former Marines in her battalion). I was always amazed by how hard the Corps could be, in fact.
Eh, like you say, there's a fine line and a gray area in all these things, including the role of women in the combat arms (especially infantry, armor and artillery) and special operations/special warfare. I'm just hoping that anything the civilian masters that run our military do doesn't end up costing us good Marines and Soldiers and Sailors and Airmen as they push females out to the lead-slinging units, is all. In the end, standards -- hopefully ones that are well thought-out and intelligently developed -- are all we have when it comes to shaping military policy and the capabilities of our forces.
"Politics is just show business for ugly people."