windywave wrote:
Were they all white and straight? I only say that half facetiously.
My HS was and is an Ivy mill. I know multiple schoolmates who got in that were missing at least two or three of your criteria.
Re. white and straight. That's certainly a fair point. It certainly increases a kid's chances of getting in if they diverge from the standard WASP over-achiever. In this case most of the kids were white, a couple blacks.
Re. the experience of your schoolmates vs. my experience. Sure, it would be hasty to assume that the limited scope of my contact with the admission process can be accurately extrapolated. It's just one vignette, interesting, but certainly not conclusive. And I did mention that the competition is apparently much more fierce now, then in decades past. Sister-in-law hit college in '80, wife in '84. Both are sharp, but not nearly the equal of the brilliant kids I've seen not gain admittance.
The Scott Gress of 1980 would not have been a wart on the behind of these kids that my wife has interviewed. As a brilliant, charismatic, super-hero, comedic genius, I was still, at that stage, a "work in progress".
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