Hey Folks,
Yesterday while having lunch with a few colleagues I was lamenting about car repairs that we have to get done this week and asking for advice.
Later in the day my wife called and informed me we have to put down our 15 year old kitty this week due to cancer.
One of my colleagues who I was having lunch with saw me and asked me if everything was okay. I told him the problem and he shrugged it off and said he would be more concerned with the car than some cat.
I’ve been thinking about this for a day or so and the more I think about it the angrier I get. My wife is probably the most compassionate person I know and this cat means very much to her. It breaks my heart how much she is going to hurt over the next few weeks and months. Pet people understand this. I just can’t figure out why people can’t empathize with other people’s feelings. Even if you’re not a pet person, why do people have to discount what’s important to someone. If they can’t understand the hurt that goes along with losing a pet than why can’t they just say nothing at all. I don’t think it’s the pet thing that is making me so angry but the fact that I told him how badly this is going to hurt her and his comment made me want to kick the living shit out of him.
Anyway, our little guy is 15, one year longer than me and my wife have been together. He underwent liver surgery this past summer and we thought we were going to get a few more years with him but we’ll have to say goodbye this week. He’s on a morphine patch now and we’re going to spoil the crap out of him for a few days and then say goodbye. We’re both going to miss him terribly and there’s going to be an empty spot in our lives for a long while. He’s been there since the beginning.
I’m a new member to the Slowtwitch community and I’m not sure why I’m posting this but it’s good to vent a little.
Thanks,
Tom
Yesterday while having lunch with a few colleagues I was lamenting about car repairs that we have to get done this week and asking for advice.
Later in the day my wife called and informed me we have to put down our 15 year old kitty this week due to cancer.
One of my colleagues who I was having lunch with saw me and asked me if everything was okay. I told him the problem and he shrugged it off and said he would be more concerned with the car than some cat.
I’ve been thinking about this for a day or so and the more I think about it the angrier I get. My wife is probably the most compassionate person I know and this cat means very much to her. It breaks my heart how much she is going to hurt over the next few weeks and months. Pet people understand this. I just can’t figure out why people can’t empathize with other people’s feelings. Even if you’re not a pet person, why do people have to discount what’s important to someone. If they can’t understand the hurt that goes along with losing a pet than why can’t they just say nothing at all. I don’t think it’s the pet thing that is making me so angry but the fact that I told him how badly this is going to hurt her and his comment made me want to kick the living shit out of him.
Anyway, our little guy is 15, one year longer than me and my wife have been together. He underwent liver surgery this past summer and we thought we were going to get a few more years with him but we’ll have to say goodbye this week. He’s on a morphine patch now and we’re going to spoil the crap out of him for a few days and then say goodbye. We’re both going to miss him terribly and there’s going to be an empty spot in our lives for a long while. He’s been there since the beginning.
I’m a new member to the Slowtwitch community and I’m not sure why I’m posting this but it’s good to vent a little.
Thanks,
Tom