"You didn't get the job" gift?

My fiancee just found out she did not get a job that she was really excited about. I think it’s the first time she’s ever not gotten a job/not gotten into the school she wanted/etc. Pretty bummed (for both of us, this was a great opportunity). We both have good jobs, so it’s not like we’re concerned about money or anything.

Is this an appropriate time for flowers? Something else? She’s not a delicate soul, but I don’t think she’s had to go through a rejection like this before.

A really nice dinner and movie would be what I’d like. Reaffirm that you still think she’s great even if the stupid company failed to recognize that.

I think surprising her with flowers sent to her current office would be really sweet. Just make sure the note says something ambigious like “You’re amazing” and not anything about another job hunt. :slight_smile:

I prefer to remind my wife that she should consider herself lucky that she’s not getting her ass kicked right now.

Yeah, I know. Sometimes I can be too romantic.

Not always getting what you want is one of life’s realities. Although this is the first time, it won’t likely be the last time. The flowers and a dinner idea sounds like a plan.