Would you ask your friends to vote for your adult child in a racy photo contest?

So…she’s not a kid, hasn’t been for the better part of a decade, is posing for a nationally circulated magazine, you call this woman a friend, and she asked you to help, and you’re refusing to post a link?

Seriously, be a good friend and post the damn link already. I’ll toss her a vote.

Freudian slip?

yeah I looked. One of the current leads is a lady with a double mastectomy, no reconstruction.

What can I say, that’s awesome.

I was just thinking that our Delaware street nap lady would fit right in here. Dont remember exactly what she looks like, anyone have a sighting in the group of ladies?

So this pic is far from what you described… wondering if it was the correct one… Seems odd for an Tattoo magazine cover as the Tattoos are not very visible, But I will say the symbolize and message are WAY strong. ---- Ok found the right pic… but after posting this one… the other one is just to disturbing for me to post.

https://cdn.inkedcover.com/5a9848e7c2094fa60a07b2f0ee2c1903.jpg

I had a similar request on a university alumni forum I visit. Same contest but different woman judging by the description. It seems odd to me, too.

SHe’s a 26 year old woman trying to further herself in her field of choice. IT is not Hustler magazine, most on that site are less revealing than the much younger girls I’m watching swimming in the world championships right now, on national TV. The way I see it you have a couple choices, one to just vote for her because she is a friend. Or you can withhold your vote, because you dont think she deserves it in the context of the contest, that’s you being honest. But pretending that it is some creep show and you just want distance, I think that is a little over the top when talking about full fledged adults here, pursuing some artistic path. Its not porn, its modeling…She doesnt have a problem, and apparently here family doesnt either, so good for them to support their daughter…

I will do everything in my power to steer my daughter away from this type of work, but if she were 26 and set her mind in a way I was never going to change it, I would support her too…

It isn’t what she is doing. If I found it on my own, I wouldn’t think twice. It is mom who is blasting it to friends and family that I do not understand.

Nope. Not it.

SHe’s a 26 year old woman trying to further herself in her field of choice. IT is not Hustler magazine, most on that site are less revealing than the much younger girls I’m watching swimming in the world championships right now, on national TV. The way I see it you have a couple choices, one to just vote for her because she is a friend. Or you can withhold your vote, because you dont think she deserves it in the context of the contest, that’s you being honest. But pretending that it is some creep show and you just want distance, I think that is a little over the top when talking about full fledged adults here, pursuing some artistic path. Its not porn, its modeling…She doesnt have a problem, and apparently here family doesnt either, so good for them to support their daughter…

I will do everything in my power to steer my daughter away from this type of work, but if she were 26 and set her mind in a way I was never going to change it, I would support her too…

It isn’t what she is doing. If I found it on my own, I wouldn’t think twice. It is mom who is blasting it to friends and family that I do not understand.

Perhaps the mom doesn’t look at it with the same “creepiness factor” that you do. Perhaps to the mom, she is proud of her beautiful daughter and merely sees the photos as showing off her daughter’s beauty. Perhaps the creepiness of it doesn’t register with her in the slightest.

If that’s the case, I can understand missing the perspective you mention. I think it’s incredibly unobservant, but I could at least understand it.

How the fuck am I being an ass??? I replied to your post before you edited it to say you found the right one.

Wow. I hope you are proud of yourself.

SHe’s a 26 year old woman trying to further herself in her field of choice. IT is not Hustler magazine, most on that site are less revealing than the much younger girls I’m watching swimming in the world championships right now, on national TV. The way I see it you have a couple choices, one to just vote for her because she is a friend. Or you can withhold your vote, because you dont think she deserves it in the context of the contest, that’s you being honest. But pretending that it is some creep show and you just want distance, I think that is a little over the top when talking about full fledged adults here, pursuing some artistic path. Its not porn, its modeling…She doesnt have a problem, and apparently here family doesnt either, so good for them to support their daughter…

I will do everything in my power to steer my daughter away from this type of work, but if she were 26 and set her mind in a way I was never going to change it, I would support her too…

It isn’t what she is doing. If I found it on my own, I wouldn’t think twice. It is mom who is blasting it to friends and family that I do not understand.

Perhaps the mom doesn’t look at it with the same “creepiness factor” that you do. Perhaps to the mom, she is proud of her beautiful daughter and merely sees the photos as showing off her daughter’s beauty. Perhaps the creepiness of it doesn’t register with her in the slightest.

If that’s the case, I can understand missing the perspective you mention. I think it’s incredibly unobservant, but I could at least understand it.

I’m assuming that’s the case.

Here is the other factor - I have a daughter a little older than this. I see guys my age leering over her and, being the protective papa, I want to kill them. That’s my little girl, even though she is a 30 year old adult. Having that feeling about my own kid, it makes me feel “icky” to view a friend’s daughter in any way remotely sexual.

But, as I mentioned before, these pics are supposed to be sexual. They are intended to be titillating. So, I actually feel guilty looking at them and having the reaction that she is sexy and I should vote for her based on her sexuality.

I don’t think I am being a stuffy old fogy here, but, tell me if I am wrong. No, it isn’t my kid. No, I will not link to the pictures.

I have a female friend on Facebook who is about my age (48). She has a daughter who is, I believe, 25-26. Her daughter is in a contest for Inked Magazine to be a cover-girl. Inked Magazine is a tattoo magazine that features scantily-clad tattooed women.

My friend posted a link to the contest on her Facebook page. She mentioned that her daughter has “worked really hard” to get here and really wants to win. So, she wants all her friends to vote for her daughter. The link takes you go the contest photo-shoot, which is in a graveyard. A couple pictures show her in a crop top and skin-tight jeans. But, most are in sexy underwear … posing in the graveyard. Her daughter is not unattractive, but, is a “thicker” girl. A couple pictures have her bending over in a thong, which, honestly, isn’t the best look. One picture is full nude, peaking out from behind a gravestone.

Now, would I want my daughter to pose in her underwear? No, but, I wouldn’t lose my mind over it. She is an adult. But, I just cannot see coming on ST and linking those pictures for all of you sleeze-dogs to oggle over. Likewise, if my daughter was a Victoria’s Secret model, I would be very proud of her, but, would not post her underwear pictures here to draw attention to them.

I find the entire thing very odd. Wifie says the same. It seems like pimping out your daughter. Also, what is the appropriate response to my friend? Am I out of line telling her her daughter has a nice rack?

Now I know why Hillary refused to campaign in Wisconsin.

How the fuck am I being an ass???

I just assumed that was your natural state

How the fuck am I being an ass???

I just assumed that was your natural state

Why are you checking out my ass???

How the fuck am I being an ass???

I just assumed that was your natural state

Why are you checking out my ass???

What do you expect when you wear denim spandex capri pants?

How the fuck am I being an ass???

I just assumed that was your natural state

Why are you checking out my ass???

What do you expect when you wear denim spandex capri pants?

Well … they do make my buttocks look sublime …

How the fuck am I being an ass??? I replied to your post before you edited it to say you found the right one.

Wow. I hope you are proud of yourself.

  1. I agree with Windy I just assume its your normal state.
  2. Sorry didn’t check time stamp, wasn’t long before I corrected.
  3. Uhm no, so I deleted it.

Here is the other factor - I have a daughter a little older than this. I see guys my age leering over her and, being the protective papa, I want to kill them. That’s my little girl, even though she is a 30 year old adult. Having that feeling about my own kid, it makes me feel “icky” to view a friend’s daughter in any way remotely sexual.

But every women you see is some Dad’s daughter. Just cause you know there father you feel icky but otherwise it’s fine?

Thank you. I really wasn’t trying to be an ass, so, I apologize for coming off that way.

How the fuck am I being an ass???

I just assumed that was your natural state

Why are you checking out my ass???

Cause when your a complete ass no matter where we look that is all we see.

Here is the other factor - I have a daughter a little older than this. I see guys my age leering over her and, being the protective papa, I want to kill them. That’s my little girl, even though she is a 30 year old adult. Having that feeling about my own kid, it makes me feel “icky” to view a friend’s daughter in any way remotely sexual.

But every women you see is some Dad’s daughter. Just cause you know there father you feel icky but otherwise it’s fine?

Oh, trust me, the older I get the more I realize that! But, there is a heightened awareness of it when I know the parent(s).