To expand on my own n-1 (and let me say right now this isn’t medical advice, just my own experience)
I was embarrassed about it and went for years with almost daily discomfort.
Mine would flare after a bm, then generally calm down by mid afternoon. Daily.
Eventually, it got worse and even after reading all the surgery horror stories I resigned myself to it. I gave myself a time limit, a couple of months if it wasn’t better I’d go under the knife. I tried a shitton of “miracle cures” on amazon, everything reddit could suggest, etc. Nope, all I did was spend a bunch of money.
Eventually, I tried some “extreme” diet changes. Went fully vegetarian, juice, etc. It didn’t “work” but I went from 0/7 days without issue to maybe 2/7 without issue. That was a huge win in itself, but what it really told me was there was “something” related to what I was ingesting that had an effect. So I went down that rabbit hole.
Eventually, after I bunch of trial and error I stumbled on a poop test from Onegevity. Now full stop, I don’t think these gut bio tests are terribly useful (definitely not as advertised) but again, I had already thrown a ton of money at bullshit miracle cures, so why not. Overall, the info back was not terribly useful, but it did show me one very useful thing. The probiotic I was taking did not have the lactose strain that the test showed I was low in… so I bought a different probiotic and tried it.
Also, while anything that even smells of “Fad diet” I generally thing is BS… keeping track of FODMaps and recording what I had was very enlightening. There are a good number of foods that I was loading up on that in theory should be “good” for Hems (beans, fruit, Psyillium, etc - high fiber stuff that you’d think would help) that when I cycled off of, it actually had a huge effect on my BM’s.
Again, let me re-emphasize, I don’t think that’s a cure all panacea and it’s almost certainly dependent on each situation. It worked for me, roughly 2 years in at this point I went from a daily hassle to maybe once every other month if I let my diet/etc really fall off.