A few things you may want to consider. I was at the USAFA for all of the initial ‘hell summer’. I then started classes there, but did not stay for the year. I graduated from the University of Calif. and, in retrospect, am quite glad I went the way I did.
Some observations: the time there is tough, but not physically to someone like yourself. Most of the cadets in my class at the USAFA were laughably unfit, but, boy, they could drink more alcohol in one night than I could in my lifetime. The way the academies make it tough is that you will sleep very, very little, will learn to fold your underwear with unreal precision, will learn to march real well, and do a lot of other things with that have very little useful purpose. A lot of activity there was focused on keeping up appearances and very little on truly improving or developing the body or being inside. The military academic instructors were very weak compared to most of the fairly inspired instructors at my civilian university. Cadets who were just about to graduate and who I knew for many years and who were very smart told me an interesting thing: “the academy takes an adult and makes him into a child”. The academy follows up on your every move and problem, which is nice if you want or need a Mom to follow you around and check up on you. No one follows up on you in a civilian university: you want to graduate at the top of the heap?–then it is YOUR responsibility to register, to come to class, to do your work, to take your exams, to submit your paperwork. You don’t want to meet the requirements or the deadlines?–then you’re history…
I am now a pilot and fly a 747 all over the world for a living. I have run in to many, many military trained pilots in my career. There are exceptions, but if I had to broadly generalize, military pilots are a lot weaker than civilian trained pilots. I am sure there are many reasons for this.
Defending your nation is an admirable thing, but be aware that lately (since Korea, Vietnam, Iraq, etc.) lame-ass “money dynasty” politicians who have never risked their life for ANYTHING are the ones that are sending soldiers and officers to their death or dismemberment. Also, the military spends a lot of money on planes, ships, subs, bombs, jet fuel, questionable training, but if you lose you leg or your spine, somehow the equivalent funds and support don’t seem to make it to the VA hospitals.
Whether you go to the USNA or not, do these things below and you will know more about what you are REALLY getting into than 99.9% of your classmates:
See the film, “Dear America: Letters Home from Vietnam” A stunning documentary that is, hands down, one of the best films about life, war, and history EVER made.
Read “The Ugly American” A incredibly patriotic book (a novel based on real events) that vividly shows the reasons behind the Vietnam bloodbath. This book has even had the honor of being specifically denounced (!–truth is always unpleasant to politicians) on the floor of the US Senate.
See “Born on the 4th of July” A hellish film about what often happens AFTER a soldier’s spine is blown to bits.
Spend some time at a VA (Veteran’s Administration) Hospital and see for yourself what kind of party it can be.
Sorry I can’t offer more encouragement, but I think you know by now that every major life choice has pluses AND minuses. Don’t take my word for anything, see, read, and learn for yourself.