Smoke 3 packs tonight, seriously. Smoke yourself sick. Maybe drink yourself into a stupor to. It worked for me. Didn’t want to look at a smoke for the first 2.5 days.
You will probably fail. And that’s ok. Public pronouncements such as this are good in that respect.
Never quit quitting. It usually takes a few times to stick. You will likely need to re-define the exact type and extent of self control you will need. But you have it in you and you will find it.
Quitting is a process, as is anything worthwhile and life changing
Millions have suceeded.
The urge passes.
1st 3 days suck.
Sometime after a week or two there will come a time when you realize that cigarettes were not the only thing you have been thinking of for the last few minutes and you will be surprised and happy.
Millions have failed.
Buy the patch and wait until you really, really want a smoke and then stick it on to clean, oil free, shaved skin. After about 3 minutes a somewhat deep relaxation will come over you and you will realize you can do this.
It’s like breaking up with your first love… all encompassing and nothing will ever convince you that things will be ok again, but persevere and soon they will be and you will feel silly for your longings and desire.
Indulge every other desire you have for awhile, food, booze (careful there as it can lead to smoking), but don’t stress about gaining 5-10 lbs. Embrace it.
Quitting smoking is the single most healthy choice you can make. Everything else pales in comparision unless you are mainlining heroin. Your body, breath, clothes, car, home, will no longer stink. You will no longer be stigmatized. Sneaking outside like an outcast to catch a smoke. It is freedom. The cough, the $$, etc.
You will be so happy and proud once you are through this. It is truly a monumental achievement. So many smokers never can kick it and will literally die from their habit. If you don’t quit you will likely die from yours.
Obviously I have been through. Once upon a time (2006?) I won a triathlon after sneaking a quick one under the boardwalk in my wetsuit right before the ocean swim. Chain smoked 3 more right before the awards. RD and 2nd and 3rd looked at me very funny after picking up my scent. So don’t think you need to quit one thing before embarking on something else. Start the healthy stuff right now and let it displace the unhealthy things. Saying no to something is hard work and draining, so look for healthier alternatives to say yes to instead of or at the same time. Saying yes is always empowering. In time, you will have a lifestyle with simply no room for unhealthy habits.