you think you’re disappointed, imagine the guy that she just cheated on. LOL
maybe she didn’t take the phone. but if she did what do you expect? she is the type of person to cheat on her boyfriend with you. why not steal a phone?
just cut the phone off so you don’t end up with a phone bill from japan or something.
Let it go–lesson learned. Chicks that (1) cheat on their SO, and (2) have hot sex with guys they barely know, are usually not too mentally stable.
As far as cell phones go, I had mine (along with an Alpine stereo) stolen out of my car about two weeks ago. The irony is, I was inside a building doing charity work at the time. No good deed goes unpunished, as they say. Anyway, whoever stole the phone made several local calls to two cell numbers, and both of those numbers called back. So, the cops now are going to interview the owners of the two other cell phones and see if they can identify who was using my stolen phone.
Wow, I think a lost phone is the least of your concerns. Well, that is, unless the phone was the only place you had your therapist’s number stored.
Let’s see. You break one of the major “guy” rules and knowingly go after somebody else’s girlfriends and then are surprised at the results?
And you’re disappointed with her?
Thanks for reminding me.
I would like to add “dude” to the list of words to abolish.
Oh, you are right, people are nuts.
and I perfomed an 5-times Ironman finisher kind of sex with her.
Ladies, any input please!
“I performed?” Where was she during this “performance?”
“5-times Ironman finisher kind of sex?” What does this even mean?
Ladies, any input please!
And what, exactly, are you looking for from the “ladies?”
She most likely needed the phone to call and make sure her HIV perscriptions were ready.
She most likely needed the phone to call and make sure her HIV perscriptions were ready.
Remember that the two wacky characters of our 5-time-IM “love” story are college students. These folks are our future.
Asskicked:
her boyfriend is in same class, so everything was low profile. sex with her.
A) If she did take the phone, you deserved it.
B) Welcome to the world of living with, being around, other people. You misplaced the phone somewhere and can’t find it. Rather than tear the place apart, or retrace your steps carefully, it is far easier to blame a perfect reasonable target - another person present at the time. If you think it is bad now, wait until you have a family. Congratulations on having your world expanded. Although, you still sound extremely self-centered.
My only question is, when the phone turns up, somewhere in your possession, will you have the balls to man up and admit it here. Then, the circle will be complete.
“Fellow ST´ers be careful with people out there in this world, we all know there are some crazy headed human beings walking around”
Are you referring to the crazy people that screw other guys girlfriends and then blame the girl when they lose their phone? Yeah, those people are f’d up.
I had a friend had his car “broken into.” They broke the driver side window. The funny/sad part of it was there was nothing in the car and the doors were not locked.
Anybody else get the feeling this guy was just looking for a forum to announce to the world that he got to have sex with a hot chick? Save it for the frat house, junior.
THe initial goal of this thread was to get people´s view on the matter, sometimes when you are “inside” something, you cannot see the big picture.
I read a lot of good and positives comments, even the ironic ones like slowguy´s and others, but many of the reply´s were agressive and negatives ones. I agree that we all are a bit “nuts or crazy” and deep in there, we all have our dirty secrets.
Well, first of all, i´m only a “kid” at 23, the girl is 22 or 21, and we are both young, happy and believe or not, she is very very positive, all smiles and that was one of the reasons it took me a while to consider she was the “thief”.
I know that most of you are older than me, I respect your opinions, but at my present age, I´m pretty sure about my way of life: be around positive people, be happy, Learn the lessons, be happy, shit happens at times, be happy, do not die, be happy, school work money, be happy, my family and friends, be happy and carry on on the tough times.
Its not like I´ve screwd someone else´s marriage or that she had kids etc. At the same time, I admit I am a bit self-centered, but only time will teach me be otherwise, or not.
Thanks for the comments, specially the positive or constructive ones…
But I really really think she took my mobile 
ps: edit for spelling
My doors weren’t locked. My wife and the policeman both told me I should lock my doors. I said if someone wants to steal something, they’ll just break the window. The cop said, yeah, that just happened to a lady tonight. DOH!! My point exactly! Both the stereo and the phone combined probably cost less than a new window.
I’m young too and my friends always joke around with me that I go for the older guys. Which admittedly, I do. Now I have further evidence of why…thank you!
Claiming you are “kid” does not absolve you from resposibility. You are mature enough to handle college, maintain a household (assuming you live on your own), and other functions we usually associate with grown adults. You seem to want all of the rights of an adult but yet don’t expect to be held accountable for your actions.
What exactly haven´t I assumed responsability for?
What I´ve said was:
post 1: People are crazy and nuts, ok, me included
post 2: relax guys, life is beautiful
Edit:
PS: even with “asskicker” as a screen name, and for the story I had someone else´s girl, you know, i have a good heart and wouldn´t really do harm for an insect.
Were you friends with her BF?
Maybe what she did was a ruse to steal a handphone for her BF?
or as some have said … she really didn’t take it … you can’t be sure by the sounds of it. Like you said it is old and worthless. Instead she could have made off with your wallet and money when you were recuperating from your 5 times triathlon sex effort couldn’t she?
Is she of Vietnamese decent?
For one, you are swapping bodily fluids with someone you barely know and, if you are correct, someone who turned out to be “nuts.” If she did, in fact, take your phone, that is a direct consequence of your behavior – letting a crazy person who you don’t know into your home or car. So relax, it is just a phone. Get over it. Buy a new one, it is just money.
Just be glad you are only out a phone.