Okay, I’m replying even though hubby just saw me surfing dating sites and is even now more suspicious of Slowtwich than he was before (if that’s possible). One of my very best friends is engaged to a wonderful guy she met through AmericanSingles.com (if your “friend” is Jewish, jdate.com may be more up his alley). She was a member for about three years. Many of the guys she met didn’t work out, but she said it was an interesting way to meet people.