HowardIno,
Someone e-mailed me asking to reply to your post, as I grew up in Spain for 18 years. A lot of what others have written in here is true, but as to the guy/girl that wrote that the food in the UK is better… well, he/she is clearly on drugs or in a mental institution.
One thing I urge you seriously to consider is the fact that getting a job in Spain is EXTREMELY difficult, unless you do not mind working ilegally and for little money. This is why I left Spain, because the opportunities for those of us with professional degrees are limited and since there is such a high unemployment rate, well, employers have their way with employess. If they employee does not put up, there are 1,000 applicants ready to take his/her job. So, there, have this in mind. If you are planning on investing money and investing it in real estate projects, the potential is huge, absolutely huge.
Since you mention you and your wife like triathlon, I suggest very strongly Barcelona. This is the most modern city in Spain, industrially and athletically. Our best sports infrastructure lies in this city and there are many groups that get together to train in all different sports. In Barcelona most people do not talk Spanish, however they do know how to speak it. They prefer to talk in Catalan, a language extremely similar to French. The weather there is mild and you have an airport that will serve all major cities within western Europe. The food is fantastic. The culture is fantastic. The architecture is magnificent. And, if you like football, well, you must go to an FC Barcelona home game and experience the electrifying atmosphere.
I grew up in the far south, in the province of Malaga, whose capital city is Malaga. Along Malaga’s coast lie many towns/cities that will provide you with the most ideal weather, an amazingly international atmosphere that will offer you print magazine newspapers in over 25 languages, school for your kids in English, German, French or, of course Spanish. You can see the Atlas Mountains from Morocco without having to use binoculars. The nightlife is great. However, while there is sports infrastructure, it is not as good as it is in Barcelona. While Malaga is not a big city, its airport also serves all major cities in western Europe as Malaga and its neighboring towns/cities are the prefered destinations in the Summer for central and northern European citizens, as it offers sun, beaches and plenty of activities. Additionally you are close to Portugal and Morocco.
Riding a bike in Madrid is a direct request to be sent back to the US of A in a body bag. Riding in the smaller urban areas of Spain is a great pleasure. Our traffic laws and our requirements to obtain a driving license are much stricter than they are in the US of A, however Spain is a country that leads in many departments where we should not want to lead. For example, way too many traffic accidents. Way too much cocaine consumption. Very very high HIV infection rate. Ilegal immigration is out of control. Small crime is high. Smoking, well, lets just make sure you understand that there is no such thing as a non-smoking section in restaurants. The one thing that is quite different among other things is gun-related crime. The country of Spain has less homicides than any of the larger 25 cities in the US of A.
Well, once you decide let me know and I may be able to put you in touch with some local people who are into triathlon and/or masters swimming. Hope this all helps make our brave decision easier. Spain is a wonderful country to visit, but be prepared to endure some frustration if you plan to live there long term, the bureaucracy is extremely slow and incompetent. Our government is pretty much like yours, corrupted.
Cheers amigo!