It pays to insist that doctors listen to you and not let them just make assumptions based on little knowledge of your background!
I saw a Dr last fall about my odd-stomach issues and general feelings of being “off” - I listed about 8 symptoms that I noticed and he informed me I was just stressed out (fair enough in a way, I’d just moved and started a new job in a new, unfamiliar city) - but I’d felt stressed out before and it felt nothing like this.
Symptoms came and went over the next few months, and I thought I’d narrowed it down to my iron supplements but that was incorrect.
Next Dr, a nice woman, listened to my story a bit then kind of freaked out an ordered a stress test (what??? now I’m freaked out, too!!). It showed nothing, like I figured. So then she says I “probably” have an ulcer. Here’s a prescription. It did nothing.
Symptoms came and went and finally I’d had enough - it couldn’t even run without feeling squeezed any more. I’m no hypochondriac, something is going on and I’m tired of the stomach discomfort and headaches. New clinic, new Dr. He actually listened - whew. He asked questions. He poked and prodded. He ordered a barium swallow and a test for the bacteria that causes ulcers, just to rule things out. Okay, maybe we will get to the bottom of this after all.
I go back to discuss the results and a different Dr saw me. Initially I was a bit disappointed because I didn’t want to repeat my story but this guy was great. Amazingly he chatted with me for 10-15 minutes about diet, exercise, and the negative results of my previous tests. Then he suggested this (which apparently is well-known but I’d never heard of it): 2 tsp of apple cider vinegar + 1 tsp of lemon + a bit of honey in a glass of water before meals and see if that makes a difference. He figures that it’s excess stomach acid and after a meal my tum makes too much acid, leading to the discomfort and headaches. The acidy drink should trick my tum into thinking it’s got enough acid produced. That concoction isn’t exactly pleasant, although with enough honey it’s tolerable - and it’s increasing my fluid intake for the day by about 30%, so not a bad thing!
3 days in and it really seems to have helped. No tummy discomfort, no headaches. Yay! I’ll keep this up 3x/day for a week and then cut back but if this is the end of a year’s worth of significant discomfort I’ll be so happy. It’s bad enough getting older as it is, I’d like to avoid “age-related” health issues for a while yet, but this whole situation is likely related to just getting older.
It goes to show that we need to advocate for ourselves in the medical system. If one Dr is dismissive then find another Dr who will sit and listen, and take our symptoms seriously. We aren’t all just “stressed” and it’s not all in our heads.