I’ve had an increasingly severe problem with my gut going on several years now. Symptoms come and go in waves and range from extreme lethargy that last for days to chronic stomach pain, loss of appetite for several days, vomiting, and a general immune system akin to an AIDS patient. I have two young kids, and a wife that works in a hospital so I would imagine a lot of bugs coming and going through the house but I get hit by them all and it takes me a long time to recover from each one. When I’m struggling with this I feel like I get, maybe, a couple of hours of decent energy a day and the rest of the day I just feel like shit.
A month or so ago I ended up in the ER with extreme stomach pain that struck in the middle of the night. I spent a total of 36 hours waiting in the ER over 3 visits (canadian healthcare system ftw…) only to be given a blood panel and CT scan and be told there’s nothing wrong with me. Dr said I had ‘immaculate blood work’. I asked about an H.pylori test for an ulcer but they wouldn’t perform one as that isn’t an emergency service.
I don’t have a family Dr and it’s impossible to find or access one in my province. I might be able to find an NP. Or, I may be able to get a telehealth appointment with a Dr but the issue there is there is no follow up with the same Dr and those services are quite disjointed and generally just used for referrals.
Aside from ruling out an ulcer, I don’t know what to ask for, what to look for, or what low hanging fruit I can start to address, and in our healthcare system if you’re not in need of emergent care you’re generally pushed aside unless you really advocate for yourself. I just don’t know how or to whom I should escalate this to as the few times I’ve been given a cursory once over and ambivalent shoulder shrug then sent on my way.
Part of the problem is on paper I’m in excellent health. I’m 41, still lean and fit, I rarely have a drink, don’t smoke, very conscious of limiting processed foods and eating well etc. I feel like I tick off most of the lifestyle boxes, aside from maybe quality sleep and stress, but I have young kids so that’s somewhat unavoidable for now.
Are there specific tests I should ask for, or a referral to a specific specialist? Has anyone suffered from similar symptoms and found any relief? Any help would be appreciated, I’m really sick of feeling sick.
Before windywave mentions it, I’m not considering MAID nor have I been offered it (yet).