I love drafting

I am always trying to hang on to the roadies wheels when I ride I love bike racing I think more than triathlons but dont own a road bike yet. Am I too old to start I am in late 50’s

Drafting on your road bike is fun! Please start with cyclists you know and are safe riders. Ask them before hand. Look ahead for road debris and anything that may cause the cyclists ahead of you to veer from their course. Practice! You will find it unsafe to be behind some cyclists.
If you don’t know a person or group, ask if you can draft them. Most don’t mind, but some will.
But YES you can learn to draft at your age. Your self confidence will determine how safe you are—to some degree.

Awesome, go for it! There are some women in this forum like Vegasjen or triingtotrain or Dr. Tigerchik (and a few others) who might understand your perspective better than anyone else.

Jump into draft legal triathlons.

Jump into draft legal triathlons.

which non practically exist in the entire USA for AG. homefully OP is not in aero while drafting

If I find a group, I’ll often jump on, never asked
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get a road bike if you can, you’ll be treated with suspicion on a TT bike. not too old, no way!