I am 47 and FOPer and I train around 15 hours per week
I love food, however, I am really mindful of my long term health. Crap foods, high fat and high cholesterol will screw up your heart whether you are a fit athlete or a couch potato. I therefore eat a mainly whole foof vegan diet, even though I am not a vegan, I still eat occasional meat, fish and cheese. I do not eat vegan meat replacement, vegan junck food is just as bad for you as meat junk food.
When I eat less healthy foods I really make sure that I enjoy it. I eat a Pizza every couple of weeks, but go for a really nice one that I will enjoy, not some cheap fast food supermarket pizza. I enjoy a really nice chicken curry, and may have one occasionally. When I am near the coast, I simply love fresh fish - much better than farmed fish bought in supermarkets.
I also drink, although in the training season, I drink almost no alcohol, possibly one beer per week, maybe once per month I will go out with friends and have 3 or 4 beers. However, between September and January, I will have a beer or wine most evenings, and do the whole Christmas party thing. Also after a race I will normally have a couple of beers with friends. Since I don’t drink much, I am happy to spend more money on nice craft ales and nice wines, rather than going for cheap alcohol
My regular diet is lots of beans, lentils, Kale, Salads and fruit… although I must admit to being very fond of nice chocolate: every day I say that I will give it up, but am never successful. I like salad, I like beans and lentils. OK they don’t excite me too much, however, after eating this type of food, I feel better, I train better, I sleep better. I guess it is a choice, do you want a lightly boring meal, that makes you feel good after, or do you want a fantastic gastronomic feast that makes you feel bloated and lethargic afterwards?
You and I sound identical in terms of diet. The only difference is I dropped alcohol in favor of coffee. I’m going plant based, but won’t restrict myself from eating meat on occasion. I feel a lot less bloated and lighter with less meat.