Went to Kauai for honeymoon…vacationed in Maui once.
My pick? Kauai. When we go back to Hawaii, we want to go back to Kauai. It’s a bit less commercialized. It’s smaller. More outdoorsy (though all the islands offer good outdoor activities). We LOVED the Princeville area. For us, the northshore was the best. Some AMAZING beaches available that aren’t too crowded…near the Kalalau hiking trail, among the better trails I’ve ever hiked. It can get pretty rugged in sections, depending on how far you go…but so worth the views and the experience. Some decent surfing on a lot of the beaches. Roadbike and mountain bike rentals at Kauai Cycle in Kapaa (though, the traffic and narrow roads do not seem bike friendly, that did not stop a TON of locals we saw on rides in the mornings).
The small town of Hanalei was our favorite place on the island. It’s literally minutes from Princeville…great beach, good surfing, good snorkeling, great little places to eat…and this AWESOME food stand with great things on the menu (we called it the “tranny stand” for the tranny looking person that worked there on some days). It had our favorite restaurant called Postcards. We went to a lot of restaurants…from expensive fancy, to cheap local spots…this killed them all, in our opinion.
The island is not too big…so we went all over the island visiting all the towns…Waimea, Hanapepe, Poipu, Kaloa, Lihue, Hanamaulu, Wailua, Kapaa, Kilauea, Princeville, Hanalei, Kekaha, plus little places in between I’m sure. The small size of the island and lots of small towns was a plus for us!
As far as where to stay…we were there for 2 weeks…spent the whole time right in the Princeville resort area. Our honeymoon wasn’t supposed to be that long. We started out at the Westin in Princeville. We LOVED it. Very spacious…awesome beds…nice, huge bathroom…nice tv. What we LOVED though was the full kitchen with full size fridge, microwave, oven, dishwasher, island, everything. AND…the cupboards had all the glassware, spoons, and everything. AND…in-room washer and dryer. The grounds were nice…the restaurant at the hotel was mediocre…the view was ok. It is not a beachfront property, which is a minus for some. But overall…we LOVED the place. We want to go back there next time.
After that, we decided to extend our stay a few days. The last 3-4 days, we stayed at the St. Regis in the Princeville resort area. The hotel grounds were amazing!!! It is beach front…and we saw the best sunset of the honeymoon at the hotel’s beach (the best sunrise we saw was at Tunnels beach). The restaurant there was pretty good. The hotel room itself…was nice. But it was just a normal hotelroom…no fullsize kitchen or washer/dryer. But, for a hotel room, very nice.
I’ve heard that the vacation rental houses and such kick the crap out of any hotel or resort on the whole island…but we didn’t learn about that until afterwards…and we can’t remember which ones were the good ones (because there are crappy ones too).
Maui was nice too. But Maui was bigger, more crowded, more commercialized…and well, less romantic IMHO.
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