Hey mate, high arm pads are great. Definitely help with comfort and the ‘locking in’ feeling!
For reference, I’ve used the old tririg arm pads - they were awesome, about double the size of the standard Profile design arm pads. I found a big improvement in comfort! Tririg also have a new set of arm pads, called ‘Scoops’ with two different variations (https://www.tririg.com/store.php?c=scoops) which are the next set of pads I’m going to test out. After such a positive experience the first time round with Tririg, I have to say they’re awesome and have great products. They’re also relatively cheap, which is positive, and carbon, which is also cool. Can get replaceable pads easily, which isn’t always the case for more boutique pads.
Wattshop have some cool ones too (https://www.shopforwatts.co.uk/collections/anemoi/products/anemoi-arm-rests) - no personal experience here, and yeah the reviews aren’t always great, but they look cool and have a bunch of different options to fit whatever style of riding and fit you have. About the same price as the tririg ones, and wattshop will drill them for you if you have the right measurements for them.
I’ve had these Revolver ergo mantis cups (https://www.revolverwheels.co.uk/shop/components-accessories/ergo-mantis-carbon-fibre-tribar-arm-rests/). Stay well away. They look good, but are functionally terrible, are really small with the carbon support around the arms & you are probably going to have to have to drill them, but the carbon splinters terribly (and yes, I got a mechanic to do it instead of using my own clumsy hands). They have fairly poor finish quality & the pads they supply are pretty average as well. Also, if you use countersunk bolts, you can’t use these as there isn’t enough carbon to drill & thread them properly. You could go the custom route with Revolver, but after my initial experience with their product, I wouldn’t bother spending $1k+ on their stuff
Kismet look cool - https://www.mattbottrillperformancecoaching.com/product-page/kismet-carbon-pads - I’ve never used them, but they look half decent from finish quality & design perspective. Very nice weight at 104 grams. Same price as wattshop, replaceable pads, all looks good until you realise you have to drill your own holes. After my own experiences (and thus I am biased, so maybe disregard this) I’m not up for that again.
D2Z have some neat stuff - https://drag2zero.co.uk/d2z-shop/ - which I have to admit I love. They have a whole ecosystem which is designed to fit together, but also have just pads that work wonderfully. I’ve used their carbon poles (https://drag2zero.co.uk/d2z-extension-poles/) which I’ve loved, they add a significant amount of support & the product quality is great. I’ve trimmed the poles down to size (myself this time, used a carbon saw, and everything was 100% fine). I’d imagine the rest of their product line is just as good, would have no trouble recommending their stuff. They are a little pricey but I’d probably suggest that it’s worth it.
Another option is the pads from Alden Carbon (https://www.alden-carbon.com/angled-aerobar-pad-cups), it’s his own stuff & looks great. As everything is made to order, which means it’s not too far off custom for your needs. They look cool, and everyone who buys Glen’s stuff raves about it. Could be worth reaching out to him!
If you wanted to go the super high-end & pricey route, wattshop have another option - https://www.shopforwatts.co.uk/collections/anemoi/products/anemoi-extensions - available for pre order, looks awesome, but there aren’t any reviews about it & being an early adopter can have potential risks associated…
For what it’s worth, I’d go Tririg. Best product & customer service I’ve seen hands-down, and their products would probably fit what you’re looking for to a t - increase in comfort & ‘lockability’ for your arms.