How expensive? The median price of a house in the Bay Area is $560k.
That aside, here’s what I don’t like about living in the city:
I think SF is ugly. The layout of the city sucks. We don’t have alleys. Thus driveways take up streetside curb space and parking is very tight, and power lines are clustered thickly overhead on all but the wealthiest streets. There aren’t enough trees.
Housing quality is generally much worse than in the Midwest, especially in rentals. I lived and rented in Chicago for five years, where you can still rent an affordable one-bedroom in a nice turn-of-the-century brick building. Here, “affordable” one-bedrooms come in crappy stucco boxes.
Public transit is cheap – $45/month for a pass good for unlimited use within the city – but you get what you pay for. Muni needs a serious overhaul. The older buses leak when it rains. If you plan to drive to work downtown, you will likely pay several hundred bucks per month for parking.
From what I hear, getting a child into the SF public school of your choice is a nightmare.
The negatives are not so bad outside the city – the East Bay, for example, is slightly more affordable, and the farther you get from the city, the cheaper it gets. My husband and I will probably move there when we decide to buy a house because, like clm said, only those at the highest income levels can afford a median-priced home in SF.
What I love about SF and the Bay Area:
Being able to ride, run, swim and race outdoors year-round.
Being a few hours’ drive from the Sierras, Lake Tahoe, Yosemite, King’s Canyon/Sequoia, Mendocino, Santa Cruz, the Central Coast, etc.
Having a view of the ocean from our dinky apartment.
Being able to walk home from work, or anywhere else, when the mood strikes (the city is only about 7 miles across).
Living just over the bridge from the rural roads of Marin County, and riding those roads among hordes of cyclists on a nice day.
Living four blocks from Golden Gate Park and its many miles of running paths.
The Escape From Alcatraz and dozens of other top-notch races.
The Presidio, Ocean Beach, Sports Basement, a zillion potential training partners, cheap ethnic cuisine, good pubs, great bike and running shops.
The Bovine Bakery in Pt. Reyes Station. (Scones to die for, about a 35-mile ride each way from the GG Bridge.)
When I moved here from Chicago, I was a couch potato. Living here has contributed a lot to who I am today. I really miss Chicago, but I don’t miss the weather or the flatness of the Midwest.