For anyone who thought I was exaggerating about my brother

My sister has come through her second surgery unbelievably well. No way a 9mm can enter near your sternum on the left side and exit through your right buttock and you survive.

He came to kill us all

I am so sad to hear your family suffered this tragedy but so glad everyone survived.

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I appreciate it - the next hurdle is keeping him in pending trial - he has nothing left to lose

Damn, that’s brutal. Hope she recovers and also that he doesn’t. Sorry for your struggles.

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I’ve always been fascinated by stories of your brother. I really appreciate the insights into the personality type.

Take care of your wife and please keep yourself safe.

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That’s crazy! Stay safe.

I don’t even know what to say other than I’m happy you and your family are still with us.

Damn, man… I knew you had a sonofab!tch for a brother but would never have guessed it went that far.

Very glad you all are as Ok as you can be and that your sister is pulling through. Please keep yourselves all safe.

I’ve shot a deer in a similar trajectory as to what you describe, and granted: .308 vs 9mm, but still - your sister must be one tough sunofabitch.

I’ll keep you all in my thoughts. My best to you all.

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You didn’t punch him hard enough. Not trying to make light. So sorry, because this is clearly the culmination of years of pain and terror you all have suffered and feared.

How horrible. I can’t imagine.

Jesus Mary and Joseph! That is intense and really frightening.

Sending healing thoughts to your sister.

Stay safe, man.

No offense at all. They say dark humor is a sign of intelligence. If that is true, my family must be fucking geniuses.

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Oof you were not kidding about your brother! What made him snap? I’m glad you’re sister is alive and wish her a speedy recovery. In the best TNO tradition, (((((((((((healing vibes))))))))).

Wow. I’m so sorry your family had to endure that.

Are you ok?

Well, I’ve got the first therapy appointment of my life tomorrow morning. But physically fine.

We have all said sentences that before Saturday would have sounded absolutely crazy, but are now just part of our regular life.

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You win the experiences thread for sure. Wow!
My step dad threatened stuff but never acted. Homeboy here went off the deep end.
Glad everyone is alive. Hopefully he stays where he belongs.

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To give a few more details

The cast is

Steve, my oldest brother, Susie, a sister, Mary a sister and the victim, Cindy, a sister, Bob her husband, And John, the failed murderer

As for what happened. it went down Saturday. I was in town, but Steve and I had gone to Kalamazoo planning to return later that day. We were all going to get together Sunday to divide up personal property of my dad who died in November. Nothing of great value, just carvings and canes and such. We didn’t expect John until Sunday or Steve and I would not have left. Shortly after he got there John got in Mary’s face while she was sitting in a chair to intentionally pick a fight. She told him he was making her uncomfortable and to sit down. He sat down for like 10 seconds. He went out to his car, instantly came back to the living room and shot her from about 3 or 4 feet away. She fell out of the chair and he shot her again. My brother in law Bob got him to stop by walking up and pulling his arm down and he took off. It is pretty clear he didn’t mean to kill Bob. Cindy, Susie, Bob, and Mary were all sitting in the living room. Steve and I were targets too because as soon as he got there he asked where we were and when we would get back. Cindy is sure he was there to kill us all. Steve also found a message on his phone the day after where John was asking to meet him alone at Steve’s house, seemingly to take him out first.

It is an episode of Dateline.

There was a 2.5 hour time where we had no idea where he was. Everyone unaccounted for got holed up in hotels or anywhere out of their house. Then they got a ping from his cell phone a little over 50 or so miles away and finally caught him by use of FLOCK cameras in western Indiana on US 24

Big Brother got him - Flock Safety - Wikipedia

I’m glad your sister is okay

I don’t know if I’d be as calm as you seem

Wow.

Appreciate you posting and sharing. If that helps you process all of this, please continue. I’ll read and send positive vibes your way.