Marisol, give her the plan for free. No big deal. Lots of relationships are one way. Its part of life. Better to have one way friendships then none at all. As for coaches and plans, most are overrated. You can download a zillioin plans from the net. All of them work, but really what counts is what goes on between your ears on race day. Everyone is fit and ready on race day, but few execute !
If you follow the principles below, you got the Ironman plan.
Start slow
build mileage gradually, 10% per week at most
every third week, take a down week
every week, take a rest day
build gradually to a long run of 3 hours, by running long every other week
build gradually to a long bike of 6 hours by biking long every other week
every week for the final 8 weeks, swim at least once per week in open water for an hour or more at close to planned race intensity
try and do one brick workout at week (typically short, like 60 min bike 30 min run)
try to average 4K of swimming, 180K of biking and 42.2K running per week (average, so some weeks will be double, some will be less).
Take a good solid three week taper.
When in doubt, rest
Be consistent, don’t bail on workouts due to bad weather. You can’t bail on races due to bad weather
Practice you race day nutrition
Visualize your “perfect race” and your “nightmare” race over and over and over and over. Plan for perfection, but be ready for mishaps. They will happen. The best athletes overcome them.
Most of all, plan most of your training around the rest of your life, don’t plan too much of your life around training.
Feel free to forward this “free plan” to your friend.