thanks everyone
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don’t reply at all.
Be the bigger man as it were and show how much class you have and send her a few bucks. Nothing extravagant just a few bucks that shows you care and you come out of it looking like the class guy that you are. Don’t get hung up on the fact that some might say you are a chump for sending money. If you actually did and do want to sponsor someone and you feel it’s a worthy cause then go for it.
Don’t sweat the way things ended…it’s in the past and that’s where you leave it. You learn from it and move on like you have.
Good Luck 
Tell her to go fuck herself. But then you asked me, and I try and expolde bridges, not merely burn them.
this seems like a good reply, but not my style
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You are a better man than I. But most of the time, my relationships end in a very bitter way. Just ask my ex-wife.
Dude is she kidding? I think I want to barf. haa!
What Lemming said, then sleep with one of her friends.
Was it your shoes?
huh?
As nice as i would be to tell her to fuck off, it is more important to be a man, and send her a donation. Her father’s death from cancer may affect her relationships with men to this day, and you could help hee out by being a grown up about it. It is, in a way, coming full circle.
but, “fuck off” provides immediate gratification.
The way I read the “if you don’t want to donate, I’ll understand” to mean is that if you don’t, she’ll understand you’re a prick and it’s a good thing you broke up. What’s so bad about remaining friends with an ex? Make a donation already.
I’ve decided to just not respond.
Well, not knowing the details of the split…
Or, you could tell a white lie and say someone else has already asked you to sponsor them. Then find someone and do it, so the karma police don’t come and take you away.
My niece may be alive today because somebody risked being told to fuck off in the past. You don’t have to respond, but please don’t hold the request against her.
If you would support TNT anyway, then donate something small. And reply with something simple like “good luck.” $20 is fine. Costs you very little, and it is a good thing to do.
If you were going to sponsor someone anyway, then why not send her a small donation? The good karma would have to come back around to you sometime. Maybe with one of her friends . . . .
Send a donation directly to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. Send her a note that you feel the cause is definitely worthy and by donating directly you are making sure 100% of your donation is supporting the search for a cure. Oh, and also be sure to congratulate her on her decision to suppport a great cause and wish her the best.
Maybe the best post of all time, well done!!