About 6 weeks ago I had lunch with a buddy in California I had not seen in six months. We are both the same age, 63. We were talking about nothing in particular when we got on the subject of work outs. I told him about my recent experiences at the gym and how frustrated I was with the lack of results. I am retired. I can work out anytime I want and for the first time in my life I can spend hours at the gym if I want. I can ride my bike 50 miles a day. I can train for marathons; the list goes on and on. But I wasn’t seeing any results. I didn’t feel like I had energy. I was kind of depressed but my life was great. I had gained weight and for the first time in my life I weighed over 200 lbs. My sex drive was pitiful. On this day my buddy said something that ended up changing my life for the better.
My buddy Jack told me a story that echoed with me. He said about 6 months earlier he found himself overweight by about 50 lbs. He was going to the gym but didn’t see any progress. He knew something was wrong, but he didn’t know what. So he made an appointment with his PCP. The PCP did some blood work and everything came back OK. During their results discussion the PCP spent the requisite time listening to him talk about his ailments and his general mood. And with nothing showing up in the lab results he then prescribed Jack anti-depressants.
Now Jack knew in his heart that his problem wasn’t depression. He may have had some symptoms, but he knew something else was going on. So he said no to the drugs and instead started his own quest to figure out what his problem could be. And he came up with the answer that may have saved his sanity and his life.
Jack believed that his symptoms pointed to low testosterone.
Armed with his test results from his PCP Jack went to a clinic that specialized in testosterone replacement therapy. The doctors there looked at his lab results. They weren’t surprise when Jack told them what was going on because they had seen the same symptoms in many other patients.
The idea that there is a “normal†range for male testosterone borders on the absurd. For men ages 19 and up, normal testosterone levels range from 240 to 950 nanograms per deciliter (ng/dL). That’s quite a range. And as males mature the levels fall. So at one time you could have been the guy with 950 nanograms but today, at age 63, maybe you are 300, well within range, but far far away from what you once would have tested for.
So Jack listened as the doctors described his options and they also told him of the possible side effects which include both acne and a heightened risk of blood clots among other things. To monitor his progress and safety he’d come into the clinic at regular intervals for blood work. That sounded reasonable, so he went all in.
Fast forward six months later and Jack feel like his younger self. He has energy, he has his libido back, he has a six pack where there was previously fifty pounds of fat, and more importantly his pleasant mood had returned without the need for anti-depressants!
Our meeting was more than fortuitous. It was earth shaking. I made the long ride back from Sacramento to Phoenix determined to look into testosterone replace therapy, because I am not an old man yet.
When I got back home I made an appointment with my PCP. I told him my symptoms. And guess what? My “T” levels were within guidelines.Then my doc really pissed me off. He said what I was just feeling was just part of the aging process. So I left the clinic, did some research and chose a lab to visit.
I am writing this because I have been on testosterone supplements for 6 weeks now. I give myself a shot twice a week. I also take a pill for my thyroid and a a vitamin D3 supplement. And I am feeling better. I have a lot of shit going on in my life but I am losing weight, down 7 lbs. My gym workouts are finally starting to show results. I have a lot more energy and my sex life is coming back from the dead. Just ask my wife who is recovering from this morning’s workout. ![]()
So guys, if you see any part of yourself in me or Jack take the time to understand what all your options are. Don’t just trust your PCP and guidelines to rule your life. I am really glad I didn’t.