Aero-spoke?

question for you all,
i`m pretty light{100 or so pounds} will i be able to control a pair of tri spoke{3 blades} or 4 in a heavy wind?
any personal experiences and/or advice would be great

What are all the options? What is your comfort level with being blown all over the course while on the aerobar extensions? I don’t mind being moved by the wind but that’s because I keep telling myself - this is better than being less aero and going slower. It may or may not be worth it to you, esp if one it hinders one’s performance.

You’ll notice it. My wife is 115 lbs and feels that she gets blown too much to use a trispoke or deep dish front.