That’s how my first year was - if it happens, it happens. After a year, I started to wonder what the heck was wrong with me, it began to knaw at my brain. That was when we wanted to start getting serious. We really wanted kids, and our little guy is the most awesome thing ever. Had so much fun we’re 27 weeks prego with #2. But we had a lot more knowledge when #2 came along, I knew my body a lot better and it wasn’t so stressful. But was still fun trying!