or much younger than me.
Rob the cradle? Problem solved 
much younger than me
Any club members with active single parents?
Why would you want to meet another triathleteā¦?
heres your fix http://www.fitness-singles.com/
tried it maaaaany years ago, if its as good as then you should be finding lots of datesā¦
but it seems everyone is married or much younger than me.
If she has maturity this is called āmissed opportunityā dude. Iām dating a woman 10 years younger and itās just outstanding on all fronts, BUT she is also quite mature. Itās not easy finding a gal who will want to keep up with all the things I do, but she tags along like a crazy woman itās killer! Donāt dismiss it is my 2 cents.
One of the few things I donāt like about triathlons is that itās not as social as team sports. Even if youāre not looking to date, team sports are a great way to make new friends and meeting interesting people.
And Iām with tigerpaws, but I say donāt stop at 10 years. 
Age divided by two plus four is the ideal age for a maleās female companion.
That is what I am told anyway.
Love you honey.
Age divided by two plus four is the ideal age for a maleās female companion.
Well, the XKCD standard creepiness rule is plus 7, not four. 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Half-age-plus-seven-relationship-rule.svg
Love you honey.
I hope youāre not 20 years old.
Thatās the rule. Iāve always followed it-made me very popular when I was in kindergarten.
depends on where you liveā¦
Im sure if you post at least your state, in here, you might get a few winks
just sayingā¦
Man. Iāve been married too long. I was 28 when I first heard the +4. Worked OK for me then.
I feel I need to add that the +4 may add creepyness but may help the ātrainability factorā.
wear a tight white top?
wear a tight white top?
I donāt get it. is cestmoi a girl?
wear a tight white top?
I donāt get it. is cestmoi a girl?
She stated that in a few posts above.
She stated that in a few posts above.
Oh snap. Missed that.
I donāt know how often it is that a 29 yr old male to asks a 39 yr old female outā¦
Where do you live?
My best advice would be to make Kona your vacation trip next year, whether your racing or just spectating it is a prime spot to find single triathletes Lets just say I met more girls there that were actually interested in me than I have in my stay over here in Korea. I guess it would help if I actually went out and hit up the bar scene, but when you have a full time job, part time student and training for IM, there isnāt really much time left for the bar scene. Maybe do an occasional group ride with other near by towns to try and meet new people?
This one was yours, right?
cestmoi = Itās me! translate from frenchā¦
Places to met: Master swim club, spin classes, running clubā¦ Training Camp (This the place where I first spoke to my wife)
I realized I could be getting a lot of not-serious responsesā¦this is ST. I have to clear the board and remove the the assumption some have made that Iām a guy, so if you might have any ideas for a lady athleteā¦those would be most appreciated. Yes, Iām fully aware that it is quite common for men to ārob the cradleāā¦and its generally accepted. I donāt know how often it is that a 29 yr old male to asks a 39 yr old female outā¦but I donāt see it much, which is why Iām hoping I can get some new ideas on here. THANKS!!!
Iām married for 30 years now.
Back in the day, before getting married, I was a pro skier. I was young, so going much younger was not really an option. Anyway, I preferred women who knew what they were doing so to speak. The only limit I had was brought into play when I found out that a yummy woman I had been dating for about a month and I thought was about 30, was actually 42, and importantly, a year older than my mother! She was fantastic in soooo many ways, but I just couldnāt get past the older than my mum part. That creeped me out and I ended the relationship. Great while it lasted tho. At 19, I dated (OK, one night stands generally, I was a ski pro afterall!!) plenty of women from 25 to 35 and found them all to be great in a variety of ways
If I were you, I wouldnāt get hung up on age difference (unless itās a huge gap) and focus more on simply connecting with another really cool and interesting person. If itās right, it will be right, regardless of a few years age difference. My one key indicator was always music. If they liked the same kind of music as me (generally) then they would probably be a pretty good match.
Good luck and happy hunting. Enjoy the journey and donāt give up after a few mistakes, just keep plugging away. Life and relationships are endurance events! and of course, every long term relationship starts with a short term relationship.
wear a tight white top?
I donāt get it. is cestmoi a girl?
I suspect she is more likely a woman than a girl but she can let us know for sure.