Do you guys and gals get tired of reading the questions asking about form improvement, equipment, and training here, from people much slower and worse than you are, as a triathlete, newer to the sport than you are? Or maybe you are swarmed with requests from other triathletes not as good, wanting to ride with you, or swim or run?
This has got to happen, a lot.
My thinking is that once you get any good in something athletic, I’m talking about very good, you get all of these form and equipment questions, requests to train togehter, and the conclusion you might reach about everytime is that person just doesn’t get it, not only that, he’s not ever going to get it. Either you got it, or you don’t. It’s not the bike, it’s not the shoes. It’s not your form. That’s one personality. The other is, being humble and glad about your skill, and being real helpful to initiates into the sport. I bring this up, because I think the surest sign of burnout is reaching that first personality.
I was a pretty good tennis player down here when I was young, if I don’t say so myself, once ranked in the state. I played for my college team. It was about the only sport I did extremely well in. After thinking about it this morning, I never thought about my form, or my swing, or my racquet much at all, as if that was “THE ANSWER.” Those weighed in, but for the most part, I couldn’t explain it, I had played a lot, as a young kid, and it just came natural to me. But for the really, really good players, none of us would sit around at a tournament talking about a racquet, or equipment, at least not very long.
I just played and played and was obsessed with the sport, practiced all the time. The surest sign of somebody who sucked was invariably somebody constantly talking about replacing equipment. They just were never any good.
Yet, I remember being constantly besieged by friends and friends of friends, on what racquet they should buy…would I go out and hit with them and see what they were doing wrong… how do I hit a topspin serve, and so on. Constantly. Come play with me. What are you doing today? We’ll go play, and I’ll buy you some beer. Come on. Let’s go. I need the practice, and I’d hear, it again: Tell me what I’m doing wrong. Should I get a different racquet? What about my follow through. Look at it. What about this double backhand? Or, I want to do a double backhand like that, but like Bjorn Borg. Or, What do you think? Watch. What’s the best way to do that or this?
It got to the point where I just couldn’t take it any more, and just started being real brutal with them, in hitting practice balls, real hard at them. What started off over the years in being nice ended up with: “yeah, I’ll go out there with you, but I’m going to be hitting them real hard.”
And, you know, I think demolishment is the best thing for them. They’ll either suck it up, drop back and keep the obsession going, work on things, and get better, or just quit.