You guys don’t understand because you still have mother’s milk in your mouths.
My neighbors, whose average age is about 75, think I am absolutely loony. (Ok, it isn’t entirely because I dress in funny clothes!) Do I care? Well, yes and no. I do care what others think about many issues, including me. To say otherwise would be foolish and is the sort of over self-absorption I try to avoid. (Although, triathletes must be the MOST self absorbed jocks I’ve ever met.) I don’t let their views control my life, but I try to listen to and consider even the most repulsive of views. When I was young I thought listening was a sign of caring, though now I realize I’ve really always done it because I’m usually at least amused, but often astounded by the views I hear. But, the real point is this: how realistic is it for a guy my age to have a coach? No one can answer that question except me, ultimately, but plenty of folks have opinions. I’m willing to bet the vast majority of guys logging on here do not have a coach and many would have some of the same concerns I have.
Anyway, when a high school kid signs up for track he expects a coach. A recreational, VERY MATURE adult, doesn’t expect a coach, and I would venture to say that the overwhelming majority of age-groupers would think a 60 year old having a coach is the dumbest thing they’d ever heard. Maybe I’m wrong. When I was 40 I was so interested in winning I would have done it. At 60, winning is defined as getting to the race with all your equipment! And, I have so many sports injuries from baseball, wrestling, ski racing, motorcycle racing, bike racing, track, tennis, weight lifting, etc. that getting out of bed can sometimes be a major feat. Right now I’m totally blasted from training with my buddy on weights. I can barely move. (As a somewhat humorous aside I should note that he is an ex world power lifting champion and he does give me quite a few “tips”. )
Another problem is many younger people are not comfortable with ambivalence. I spent my life dealing with people and employees so I’m always trying to find the seventh side to a “box” argument! I’m not just ambivalent about winning, I have a hundred different views, at least, on what really comprises the essence of sport. To me, playing is much more important than winning, and sometimes I just want to play at a very low intensity, although I still have enough of a spark of competitive spirit to show up for the races. Most guys my age have almost ZERO competitive spirit. Count and compare the number of entrants in my age group versus the 40-45 age group. Almost all the guys who are left racing at 60 are very competitive and fit. Many of them will beat the bottom half of the 40-45 age group because that group is filled with out of shape middle aged males. But, the majority of guys my age just quit racing and training and head for the shuffle board courts in St. Pete. :), j/k (Yes, injuries, illness, and death take a large percentage, but most of the guys just have no desire. One 70 year old said to me: “Why should I keep doing this?” I responded: “If you don’t have an answer, you shouldn’t be doing it!”)
I am a strong believer in the power of a great coach. I knew several great coaches, including a personal friend who was an NFL coach, and they have my undieing admiration and loyalty. For young athletes I think a coach is ESSENTIAL. If I were 20-40 and very serious about racing I would not be training myself. (I believe the parallel is the lawyer who represents himself in court. He has an idiot for a client!) Only a coach can have the psychic distance to tell you when you are making a major training error. The self-trained guys like Dave Scott are very rare. I’ll bet for every Dave Scott there are a thousand DEAD SCOTTS who have made stupid training errors that interrupted their training or worse.
As for Ms. White, I’ve read everything she’s written here, and I hold her in the highest regard. If I get a coach and she is available, I couldn’t think of a better person. This may sound sexist but I suspect for obsessive compulsive male triathletes a female coach might have some of the qualities that are essential for “staying alive”. (with apologies to the BeeGees)
All of which misses the point I was really trying to get to, I guess inartfully, which is: “When do you need a coach?”
Sorry for the long, boring post.
-Robert