Nice drivers who hit you .

. . . wasn’t going to post on what I saw as just another bump in the life of a bike commuter, but things have changed.

Yesterday, ~ mile 18 of my 25m “long way in” commute to work, I took a tumble, encouraged by Mr. X’s minivan. I was on a pretty wide shoulder on the right of a one-way street, going by traffic backed up at the stop-sign ahead. I was going ~10mph, approaching the stop sign.

Mr. X was in the line, decided to pull into a driveway on the right to let his daughter out so she could walk the 2 blocks to school and not be late. No signal, no checking behind before pulling over. Fortuitous timing had me just at the side door of the van when he made his move. Van hit me, I hit pavement.

Mr. X immediately stopped, got out apologizing. Nice minister in the car in front of Mr. X also stopped and got out.

Quick inventory:

Me: Broken clamp on handlebar light; rear der slightly out of line, but not bent; both front shifters bent in on the bars, easily moved back into position; slight road rash on right side of body; nice swelling on left forearm from impact with side-view mirror.

Mr. X: Right side-view mirror of van hanging by a wire and in pieces. Glass gone, most of mirror gone.

I’ve been hit before, and once realizing that I’m physically going to be OK, although sore, my main concern was to make sure my bike was fine before discussing with Mr. X what we ought to do. Learned that one from Mr. Porsche, who was full of empty promises.

Bike was fine so I was ready to finish the ride and get to work. Mr. X asked if we needed to call the police and I told him that I didn’t feel a need, as I would be fine, but that if he felt a need to file a report because of the damage to the mirror, then I’d be happy to call the police. He said no, he’d get another from the salvage yard. I said fine with me, but suggested we exchange info. just in case something came up. He agreed, business cards swapped.

I went on my merry way, grateful that I had 7 miles to loosen up and see how the fall might limit my Gulf-Coast training. (Glad to report no problems!)

So, didn’t think much of it, other than to minimize the incident for my wife and clean up the road rash. I was glad Mr. X was not Mr. Scream, as some drivers are when things get bumpy with the non-auto public, but otherwise didn’t think of it.

Then, . . . just now . . . I get a call from Officer Z, of the Decatur Police Department. Now, I’m a public defender, so get calls from law enforcement all the time, and was trying to figure out which case the officer would be calling on.

Turns out, Mr. X, after getting home and cogitating overnight on the incident, was still concerned that I might have been more hurt than I let on. So, this morning, he went to the police Dept, told them what happened, gave them my contact info. and asked if they would check to make sure I was OK and still felt no need to file a report.

I told the officer I was fine, my bike was fine, and I felt no need to report the incident, but that if Mr. X was insisting on a report I’d be happy to comply. Officer says no, he’s just worried and wanted to make sure you were fine.

So, Mr. X goes to the top of my list of encounters with the driving public, and I thought I’d share the experience. My experiences with the other 99% of the driving public are too legion to mention. However, considering we have negative posts about drivers from time to time, I thought I’d post a positive one.

T

Glad to hear that you are OK. I wish all people were like that-wouldn’t that be nice, eh! Thanks for sharing your positive experience.

Have you considered sending this to the “Letters to the Editor” or your local paper? Some good press can go a long way.

Thanks for the positive post. We get (and feel) too much negativity for drivers. I probably get a friendly wave waaay more often then I get a “get off the road you *&^%%& idiot”. But those are the moments we tend to remember.

Isn’t it sad that people doing the right thing, the courteous thing, is such an amazement? Glad everyone walked away ok and you are fine. Sometimes the smallest gestures mean so much.

It amazed me. I thought the punchline was going to be Mr. X suing him for the cost of the mirror.

Maybe you should change the title to “Nice drivers who hit nice cyclists …”

Your calm and forgiving treatment of the situation is a great model of behavior in contrast to the aggressive confrontations we routinely hear about. Thanks for your story!

Ahhh. how the world used to be when ‘accidents’ happened and people didn’t call their lawyers at the drop of a hat.

Glad all parties are ok.

. . . I thought about the guy in Colorado (I think on TIAA-CREF) who threw his bike into the windshield of a driver during their training camp, after a confrontation wherein he dared a verbally abusive driver to hit him, which she obligingly did.

That didn’t seem like a reasonable reaction to me when I read it, and since there was no sponsor waiting to give me another bike, I decided prudence dictated another course of action!

My baseball coach when I was 6 (I still remember this), told me: “It takes fewer facial muscles to smile than to frown”. Seemed like a reasonable way to go through life to me at 6, still does. Generally works too.

However, the 3 inch diameter rasberry on my ass is singing pretty loudly right now, lest I forget how lucky I generally am.

T

<< It amazed me. I thought the punchline was going to be Mr. X suing him for the cost of the mirror >>

Don’t be amazed - that happened to me, actually.

Long story short, I got hit by a car (who ran a stopsign to do so) while riding (I hate to admit this) my moped. (This was back in HS 20 yrs ago, I couldn’t afford my own car, and it was a pretty long ride to do by bike roundtrip every day to work - I was a caddy in the summertime)

Exchanged info ONLY because somebody else came along and saw how beat up I was (I hurt my knee - HEY! lightbulb goes on, I just had that knee scoped last Fall, Doc says it was from a very old injury - now I know where I hurt it - D’OH!!!).

Anyway, a few months later, we get a court summons. The dude SUED me for the damage done to his car by virtue of my getting hit by it. WTF? What’s worse was, he “won” - the judge gave us each half damages (no-fault), but since my Dad fixed the moped himself (he was a mechanic) and I never got my injuries checked out, we had nothing to claim. GRRRR.

I also got hit by a volunteer fireman (on my bike this time) in HS, who then lectured me about how it was “all my fault” (that he backed into me, and would have kept backing up had I not started wailing on the trunk of his car just before I got pinned underneath it).

Front wheel was toast, so he was “nice” enough to give me a ride home. Didn’t offer to pay for it, and so that came out of my monster wages working PT at the local market.

Hopefully next time I’ll get hit by a nice driver. Sounds much more pleasant. :wink:

“So, Mr. X goes to the top of my list of encounters with the driving public”

I think he’d be a bit lower down on my list, i.e. behind all those drivers who DIDN’T hit me on the way to work. I mean, how difficult is it NOT to hit a cyclist with a car? Should this guy be driving AT ALL? Sounds to me like the world would be a safer place if he wasn’t.

I’ve been hit twice since Christmas, in broad daylight by people who didn’t stop. Would I have felt better if they HAD stopped and been polite? F**k no. These twats should be paying attention.

Your calm and forgiving treatment of the situation is a great model of behavior in contrast to the aggressive confrontations we routinely hear about. Thanks for your story!
Is it legal to pass stationary vehicles on the right by riding on the shoulder? I’m not sure it’s legal for a car, and I’m not sure it’s any different for a bicycle.

. . . that’s my opinion too. I normally wouldn’t have done it and would have gotten on the sidewalk or waited at the end of the line. I only did it here because the shoulder was so wide. I do think I was in the wrong for being on the shoulder, rather than the sidewalk.

My only excuse is that I have difficulty bunny-hopping with a 20lb messenger bag on!

I won’t do it again though, lesson learned.

T

Dude, chill out. Sounds like the driver made a mistake. Which, I’ll venture to guess, we all do from time to time.

might depend on the ordinances of your locality…

if memory serves, one of the basic tenets of MD traffic law w.r.t. bikes is that if a clean, debris-free shoulder exists, you gotta use it. if it doesn’t, you ride as far to the right of the traffic lane as practicable, and it goes without saying that cruising the gutter in that case is asking for trouble.

so, in Tim’s case, were he in MD, it doesn’t really matter if the cars are moving or stopped…the shoulder is his travel lane. so long as he stops at the sign like everyone else, he’s golden.

Less than 10% chance that would happen in Northern Virginia. Maybe I should move to Georgia?

Dave in VA