This is excellent feedback all and I thank you for that!
Yes, my current wheelset is a 36 spoked cxp33 set and after 10,000 miles, 1 true. Thats good (IMO)
As far as me being a weight weenie, yuh,I would have to agree that thats NOT a concern for me at 195. At 305, it was not a concern for me either and for that matter, weight is for selling frail objects to folks who have too much money and posit there is utility behind replacing 500 dollar wheel sets every time the terrain changes. Sure. Thats not me, but hey, thats what another chooses to do. I respect that as well.
At 305, I was able to press alot of weight (not my ass out of a chair, I power lifted), but as life went on, the light in my brain said, stroke central is ahead, so I changed my lifestyle and stopped lifting huge weights
The HED3 set was a choice, to be (future),BUT no go.It appears that the HED3 set is rated for folks under 200 (lets face it, at 195, I am at the limit and if I dont take a dump and drink alot, I am over the spec anyway.)
I have also heard that there is a “tolerance” built in as far as a true wheel with the HED3. The folks at HED were nice and very honest about this as well. I respect that.
As far as what is normal riding,I tend to get on a bike and do a 70 or 80 mile ride, I ride for a training goal or for that matter, for whatever reason, its a “normal” ride. I do understand that this is not necessarily the normal for some folks who are doing sprint training, or intervals or etc etc
Right now I have started TT training for the last few months and have started changing my usual century program and this is a challenge which I enjoy.
I am still perplexed (reduced IQ is visible here) as to why with all of the bucks out there, a person or company has not stepped up and said, hey, here is the wheelset that does not untrue. But, just like Chocolate cream pies that do not put weight on me, that appears to be a fantasy.