Custody hearing in 1 hour. Cross fingers.
Good luck Jon.
Always sad when things end up going to court. Wishing you the best.
Make sure you polish your head.
I sincerely wish you the best.
Good luck Jon.
Been there, done that…got the t-shirt. With or without custody, it’s still possible to be a good dad and be there for your kids and to work things out.
My ex has more kids from a 2nd marriage. My daughter and her 1/2 sister (a 6 year old) just spent the weekend with us.
Good luck today.
"With or without custody, it’s still possible to be a good dad and be there for your kids and to work things out. "
It’s very rare for courts to award the husband custody under normal circumstances. We never had to go to court for anything and drew up our own agreement. Legally, my ex had custody but I had “generous and unlimited access”, meaning that the kids spent quite a bit of time at both homes. I fact, my teenage son is at my place for the entire summer.
We also worked out “custody” and often change things around day to day to suit what’s best for the child. We (mostly) kept things out of the courts and set up joint physical custody (not joint legal custody).
Many hours have passed with no news. Lets hope no news is good news.
J
Threads on this page are being used against me. The ones with roadfused.
I have screwed up.
That sucks. Hope it goes well otherwise.
Point out the threads where you say you love your kids.
I read the thread to which you refer. I then typed and deleted about 10 separate messages, but couldn’t figure out quite what I wanted to say. So, I’ll just say this: Based on what I “know” about you, I think you are a good man who loves his children. Period.
Geez Jon, I didn’t see the thread you are refering to but surely they can’t use it in isolation. What about you using threads where you talk about how great your kids are. If they opened that door, you can use it too. Show threads where you have talked about your love for your kids and even asking advice on how to hold things together with your wife. Hold it together Jon, don’t give up. One argument doe not constitue a “screw up”. Reasearch all your past threads and use them to your advantage.
Best of luck.
John
The idea that people are monitoring your posts to be used against you in court, is perhaps another sign that this forum is a bit of a problem for you.
Good luck. I hope they will agree that you get custody over the P3. I am sure the fight will be hard and long – can you blame her? You may need to compromise and have an out of court agreement. Perhaps she can ride it every other weekend, whilst you can admire it during the week?
Never!