trail wrote:
AS88 wrote:
You mean like when a guy beats his wife to an inch away from death and she doesn't want to file a police report? Personally I am pretty happy that hospitals in my neck of the woods take action in cases like that, even though it is against the will of the victim
That's different, because harm can be clearly demonstrated. I fully support a DA bringing charges in that case. But if someone under no duress, and with no physical evidence of harm laughs off a kiss and says it was fun, I think we should allow the DA the discretion in trusting the testimony of the "victim" and not bringing charges. E.g. I think near 100% of DAs would bring charges in your example, but near 100% wouldn't in the kissing case. And that's pretty much as it should be.
But you’re never giving the “victim” a chance to consent. It’s just a roll of the dice. If they like it, you’re golden, and they feature you on the evening news as some kind of love story. If you take a chance and they are appalled, then suddenly you’re on the evening news for a very different reason.
If the female reporter was slapped by Matthew McConaughey instead of a 32min 5k “nobody”, would the reaction be different? If the reaction is different but the action was the same, is the “crime” different?
As for the New Year’s example mentioned above, after all that’s transpired, is anyone suggesting that “eye contact” is sufficient consent to go plant one on a stranger at the stroke of midnight?