monty wrote:
I had my first beer in over 5 weeks last night, just one double IPA. It was not a deliberate decision to abstain from drinking, just the family was sick, started the 100/100, and before I knew it, 5 weeks blew past. Guess that means I dont have a problem. So I will join the challenge, but I'm going to allow myself to fall 2 or 3 times during the monthif I feel like it. But just one beer each time. I find it easier to accomplish goals if I dont put too much pressure on myself, thus my eventual goal of 60% of the 100/100's..
I never understood folks that set lofty, nearly unachievable goals, they just set themselves up for disappointment. I always liked to have 3 goal plans in place, the first one pretty much a slam dunk, 2nd one more so, and the 3rd one which all my friends liked to have as their #1...I was almost never disappointed..
And 2nd the lets be kinder and gentler to each other this year...
This is such a great way of taking on these types of challenges! It's all about trying for improvement in ourselves and the accountability helps, but can also hurt. I felt like I 'failed' when I confessed that I had wine with friends last year in late January. I was thinking about it again recently when I saw this thread pop up and thought, 'I'd still have been gold star with 90%' in a ST100in100 type challenge.
Alcohol education is an important topic and taking a look in the mirror is often enlightening. As the most common legal drug, we should be a bit more aware of all of the interactions and effects.
I'm in...again.