"I don't honestly see a solution ever being found for this problem. Mandatory meetings, rulebooks, yelling at people, none of them can solve the basic problem of determined cluelessness and the "the world revolves around ME" attitude that, alas, seems part and parcel of the American way these days. Don't know if things are better in other countries, but the US is the home of this attitude---in spades!"
Tricia,
Sadly, I think you are right.
I see this attitude all the time at my summer cottage. It's quiet and calm. We are sitting by the lake enjoying the view and all of a sudden 5 jet-skis roar into view and start zipping around creating total havoc and chaos. Technically they are not breaking the law, but when asked politly to take their noise and pollution elsewhere, I am told to, "%#&*off." Nice!
You see it on the highway: Why is it that 100 cars have to go by at a yield sign before someone slows down SLIGHTLY, and let's you in. Yeeessh, you wouldn't want to arrive wherever you are going 5 seconds later!!
Bottom line: With much regret on my part common sense and courtesy seem to be on the decline.
Steve Fleck @stevefleck | Blog