This has come up before on here. I just want to make sure I'm not trying to argue an invalid point on my behalf with my spouse.
I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place with being given crap about when I do things. You can't both say I can't get up early to do things and say you can't do things during the day.
I have a good job, with good hours, good pay, and good vacation. I wake at 6:30 and start driving at 7:15. Very very very reasonable. I get given crap about that. You're too loud waking me up that early blah blah blah. What is early about 6:30? Mind you I do nothing for myself these mornings, nor do I get up earlier than that during the work week.
Then the weekend is "no you're not waking me up early on the weekend to do something after you woke me up going to work all week".
My spouse is not on a weird shift work schedule or anything affecting a schedule. I almost feel like they sleep too much. Like, who needs to sleep 10:30 to 7:30 everyday?
Every reasonable person (in my eyes) with kids seems to get up a lot earlier than we do all week long to do "their free time" stuff. You literally see the folks in the neighborhood walking dogs, jogging, whatever in those hours. Like, totally average joes. But on those weekends I swear we're never out of the house anywhere before 10am. And it drives me absolutely nuts.
I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place with being given crap about when I do things. You can't both say I can't get up early to do things and say you can't do things during the day.
I have a good job, with good hours, good pay, and good vacation. I wake at 6:30 and start driving at 7:15. Very very very reasonable. I get given crap about that. You're too loud waking me up that early blah blah blah. What is early about 6:30? Mind you I do nothing for myself these mornings, nor do I get up earlier than that during the work week.
Then the weekend is "no you're not waking me up early on the weekend to do something after you woke me up going to work all week".
My spouse is not on a weird shift work schedule or anything affecting a schedule. I almost feel like they sleep too much. Like, who needs to sleep 10:30 to 7:30 everyday?
Every reasonable person (in my eyes) with kids seems to get up a lot earlier than we do all week long to do "their free time" stuff. You literally see the folks in the neighborhood walking dogs, jogging, whatever in those hours. Like, totally average joes. But on those weekends I swear we're never out of the house anywhere before 10am. And it drives me absolutely nuts.