eye3md wrote:
My employee did try talking to her cousin and told her "that's a human life you are endangering". The response she got was not "oh God, you are right, what was I thinking" but "well, its not my fault if they get hurt. Shouldn't be on the damn road anyways". I've had similar conversations with people.
I would half expect that kind of a response -- people do not like to admit they are wrong. But hopefully, the point got through. I really do think that the majority of people who buzz me out on the road (1) have no intention to harm me, (2) do not realize how precarious we are out there (literally, the slightest bump could kill us -- unlike people in another car where there is almost no danger from the slightest bump), (3) think they are better drivers than they actually are (they think they know where there car is (right to left) within a couple of inches and so there is no risk aiming to come within 12 inches), (4) just know that there is enough room on the road for them, a bike, and a car/truck going in the opposite direction, (5) are unaware that a bicyclist might need room to avoid a dangerous condition on the road, etc.
I really think that the education process we need is to get people to think that they have our lives in their hands and how little of an effort/delay would be involved in making it safe for bicyclists. I do not think they want to be the one to kill or maim someone's mother/father/son/daughter. If after the fact, the driver can more easily rationalize that it is not their fault. But if we can get people to think about it in advance, we could be safe and there would be no reason to rationalize.