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Years ago I asked if I was a triathlete. They said NO. I was swimming, running and biking regularly. maybe even more than an average triathlete. I didn't understand. A person who runs is a runner. A person who bikes is a biker. A person who swims is a swimmer. Why not a triathlete for someone who does all? They said because I didn't do any races yet.
Today I look around during race, and see almost half of the field is not racing. They have paid their fee, started but walking, chatting carrying a phone or camera or ipod. Some stop on the bike and talk strech kiss family member. They are out there, god knows they are having fun but it is not racing. Call it whatever you want, participating maybe but not racing. So I guess the definition of a triathlete has changed. (This comment is nothing to do with weight! just for your "competitive" sport comment)
I wasn't sure at first what your point was but now I think I do...
I understand that there are people who compete in the race, whether or not it's IM, and there are people who don't. I don't see any point in bashing the people who are there to participate and finish more than race. I just don't care. I find it inspiring seeing people who are out of shape attempting to any activity at all, more, a triathlon.
But I know there are lots of people who don't agree with that, and are clearly bent out of shape at the perception of triathlon, so I'm just saying, if it matters that much to you, then get involved in a sport that makes no bones about being elitist, like road cycling, running, etc. - that's what I mean by more "competitive" sports.
I just think it's a waste of energy to be soooo freaking angry about the issue of triathlon's perception. It is what it is. My bike racing teammates who have never done triathlons often bash triathletes in front of me. I just say "if you did triathlons, you wouldn't be saying those things. and you know what, triathlons are fun and you are totally missing out." And I truly believe that. I just don't care that much about what other athletes think because they really have no idea.
Plus, there's plenty of opportunity to be elite and competitive in triathlon. If there were not, then I would understand the anger. But there is, so I don't get it. Save your anger for something more worthy or see a therapist. Life's too short to worry about that shit. When I say "get a life," I really mean that - find a life where things like how fat people are, how people view tri, etc etc that don't matter. That's a life worth living.
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"tri" is not a verb!