Ooops! You forgot to use pink in your sarcastic post Amstel! Standard ST protocol. Get with it dude.

To to original poster: no one wants to have s@x when their bits are numb from long bike rides. Male or female. I wouldn't do an IM year in, year out, for this very reason! I don't know how those annual IMers do it, maybe they don't! I think a frank discussion about priorities is in order, without the accusations.

Good luck to you!