Yes, it happened, I got engaged. Who knew it would happen. ;)
Anyway, my fiancee and I are back and forth regarding a wedding and I am having a hard time deciding as well.
Here is the thought process so far:
1. We get married in Spring 2010 and save up a bunch of money and have a big bash, with lots of great food, all the trimmings and spend lots of money.
2. We have a very small ceremony in town and invite all our really close friends and family and then have a small lunch/brunch for everyone.
3. We elope and do the whole get married/have the honeymoon thing at the same time.
We are both pretty cheap so we are having problems with the amount of money we will have to spend on the big wedding thing. But at the same time, I don't want her to regret not having a big wedding 5 years down the road.
Thoughts?
Anyway, my fiancee and I are back and forth regarding a wedding and I am having a hard time deciding as well.
Here is the thought process so far:
1. We get married in Spring 2010 and save up a bunch of money and have a big bash, with lots of great food, all the trimmings and spend lots of money.
2. We have a very small ceremony in town and invite all our really close friends and family and then have a small lunch/brunch for everyone.
3. We elope and do the whole get married/have the honeymoon thing at the same time.
We are both pretty cheap so we are having problems with the amount of money we will have to spend on the big wedding thing. But at the same time, I don't want her to regret not having a big wedding 5 years down the road.
Thoughts?