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Orgasims & Urination
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Put the claws away! I was told to post this here.

I have had this problem in the past with ex-girlfriends but have it bad with my wife.

She orgasims so hard that she urinates a good percentage of the time. It makes her very self conscious. I am also I guess a weird man and love to give oral. She can't control it then as well which has made her even more self conscious and quite honestly is depriving me of something I really like to do.

Is there anyway for her to learn to control this?



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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Hid] [ In reply to ]
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Dude, I am not going to be able to help you but, call me crazy, I don't think the "...depriving me of something I really like to do" is going to get you too far in here.
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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Hid] [ In reply to ]
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She should talk to her gyno about it. It might just be a general incontinence issue that she can get help for. As women age bladder control issues can become a problem so I'm sure she is just as anxious to see if that is the underlying problem or not.

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Re: Orgasims & Urination [jenhs] [ In reply to ]
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She should talk to her gyno about it. It might just be a general incontinence issue that she can get help for. As women age bladder control issues can become a problem so I'm sure she is just as anxious to see if that is the underlying problem or not.
+1. Didn't think of it til she said it.


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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Hid] [ In reply to ]
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Kegel exercises might help. They help to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. Cannot help w/ the psychology.
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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Hid] [ In reply to ]
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You may want to investigate this a little closer. There is such a thing called female ejaculation. Your description is consistent with that event. I don't think that many people are aware of this phenomenon, and so it it is really easy to just chalk it up to bladder voiding.


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Re: Orgasims & Urination [didelbeans] [ In reply to ]
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Kegel exercises might help. They help to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. Cannot help w/ the psychology.
whilst kegel's will help with stress incontinence and urge incontinence, they won't help in this case.
I am going to assume she is emptying her bladder before any activity occurs... meds could help....

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Re: Orgasims & Urination [parkito] [ In reply to ]
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"You may want to investigate this a little closer. There is such a thing called female ejaculation."

Not to get too personal here, but I guess I am in the womens so I should be safe.
Sometimes after an orgasm I get very wet and it's not pee.

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Re: Orgasims & Urination [fitzie] [ In reply to ]
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Ditto on female ejaculation. I was with a woman that did this. I must say it was quite startling the first time I saw it. Pretty neat.

Better get a good mattress cover.

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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Hid] [ In reply to ]
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Going to go with a what a few others have said. Are you sure its urine? Might not be.
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Re: Orgasims & Urination [SProboscis] [ In reply to ]
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Going to go with a what a few others have said. Are you sure its urine? Might not be.



Unfortunately, I am sure it is. I have been in the possition to smell, see, taste, feel it :\



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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Hid] [ In reply to ]
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I just had to say, this was by far, the most interesting post I've read in some time. I have no words, other than perhaps she should consult her ob/gyn.

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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Hid] [ In reply to ]
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You've had this problem with ex-girlfriends (plural) and now your wife? Are you sure you aren't asking them to pee on you? You sick puppy ...
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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Hid] [ In reply to ]
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can't believe I am replying to this. Have her void before your activity. If it still happens, then its not urine and it is ejaculation. If this is what is happening, it will take her a bit to get used to it - and you are probably just REALLY good at what you do and well, ok said enough.
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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Eileen Steil] [ In reply to ]
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She does go before hand. Having a front row center seat and seeing it happen, I think only urine comes from there.

Thanks for all of the advice. She is not a fan of the doctor but I will push her to a visit. This tread should help. Thanks everyone for your contributions (well except YaHey).



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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Hid] [ In reply to ]
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She does go before hand. Having a front row center seat and seeing it happen, I think only urine comes from there.

Thanks for all of the advice. She is not a fan of the doctor but I will push her to a visit. This tread should help. Thanks everyone for your contributions (well except YaHey).
nope, they both come from there. Does it smell (or taste) like urine?



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Re: Orgasims & Urination [vortmax] [ In reply to ]
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Both taste and smell.



"your horse is too high" - tigerchik
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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Hid] [ In reply to ]
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Why do you know what urine tastes like????
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Re: Orgasims & Urination [IRONLOBO] [ In reply to ]
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C'mon man. Don't act like you don't know what it tastes like.
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Re: Orgasims & Urination [IRONLOBO] [ In reply to ]
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Why do you know what urine tastes like????



You don't?!? Well I suppose it is the same way that people can't take a bite from a dish and figure out the ingredients. Or how people can't smell a fine glass of wine and cannot idetify the many aromas.



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Re: Orgasims & Urination [matti58] [ In reply to ]
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dude, it has been years since I..........never mind......jerk.........
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Re: Orgasims & Urination [IRONLOBO] [ In reply to ]
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Maybe it's like riding a bike...you never forget how :)
Last edited by: fitzie: May 6, 08 6:33
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Re: Orgasims & Urination [parkito] [ In reply to ]
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There is such a thing called female ejaculation.

It's no phenomenon, it's urination. Involuntary loss of bladder control. Smooth muscle contraction prompted by the parasympathetic branch of the autonomic nervous system, which, by no strange coincidence controls orgasm and ejaculation.

Fitting that this would be my first post in The Womens, eh?


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Re: Orgasims & Urination [sphere] [ In reply to ]
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My wiki source says otherwise:


"Female ejaculation (also known colloquially as squirting or gushing) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts and/or urethra during orgasm. The exact source of the fluid is debated, although some researchers believe it originates from the Skene's gland.

While current information offers no solid information about the source of the fluid, chemical analysis performed on the fluid has revealed that while it sometimes contains at least traces of urine, it regularly contains chemical markers unique to the prostated (whether male or female).[

The latest research indicates the possibility that all women produce female ejaculate, even if they are not aware of it:
  • The expelled or released fluid is not urine, it is an alkaline liquid secreted by the paraurethral (alongside the urethra) glands.
  • The paraurethral glands produce an enzyme called prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), along with prostate-specific antigen (PSA).
  • Skene's gland also produces Human Protein 1, a trait formerly believed to be unique to the male prostate."

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Re: Orgasims & Urination [Al P Duez] [ In reply to ]
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I saw that in a porn once.
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