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This really sucks,I need a little perspective from the womens point of view. A few months back my wife of 7 years mentioned that she had heard from an old college boyfreind and that he had persued her during college, they had dated once or twice and the timing just didnt work out. Anyway the guy was trying to get back into running, and my wife(awesome runnner) had encouraged him to pick up running and had been givng the guy,"advice" recently. My wife has NEVER done anything that would make me assume anything wrong with this, and I forgot about it. Well over the last few days I notice her laughing,texting back and forth,hiding her telephone at night, acting a bit suspicious. Again, nothing really triggers. Then ,two days ago I jump on her PC cause my mom is in town and using mine. Her email is open and I finnd over 100 emails with this guy,mostly platonic conversations, but also personal questions like -Where is the wildest place youve ever had sex-
they are talking about how much they enjoy each others conversation, they make each other laugh.etc In the last email he sets up a new(secret) email address for her,but I figured it out and logged on. Again personal conversations, they swapped gifts, and talk about getting together.Mind you this is all over the internet,and texting. I got the phone bill today,hours upon hours of phone conversations between the two.
Worst part of all of this, we have two kids.
What do I do?
This really sucks,I need a little perspective from the womens point of view. A few months back my wife of 7 years mentioned that she had heard from an old college boyfreind and that he had persued her during college, they had dated once or twice and the timing just didnt work out. Anyway the guy was trying to get back into running, and my wife(awesome runnner) had encouraged him to pick up running and had been givng the guy,"advice" recently. My wife has NEVER done anything that would make me assume anything wrong with this, and I forgot about it. Well over the last few days I notice her laughing,texting back and forth,hiding her telephone at night, acting a bit suspicious. Again, nothing really triggers. Then ,two days ago I jump on her PC cause my mom is in town and using mine. Her email is open and I finnd over 100 emails with this guy,mostly platonic conversations, but also personal questions like -Where is the wildest place youve ever had sex-
they are talking about how much they enjoy each others conversation, they make each other laugh.etc In the last email he sets up a new(secret) email address for her,but I figured it out and logged on. Again personal conversations, they swapped gifts, and talk about getting together.Mind you this is all over the internet,and texting. I got the phone bill today,hours upon hours of phone conversations between the two.
Worst part of all of this, we have two kids.
What do I do?