So I'm guessing some of you Womens out there have sisters, eh? With kids? Well, I'm the childless aunt who couldn't be more different than my sister. Hubby always sits in disbelief that we grew up in the same household a mere 4 yrs apart. Me oldest, she youngest.
Anyway, not sure how to handle this. Won't digress into the bizarre parenting of sis/weird bro-in-law as there's no abuse, etc, just weird. (hyper religous, kinda not very tidy -- but then again I aspire to be Monk so my opinion is prolly skewed :) )
So my 13 y/o niece gets accepted to a fine arts camp this summer for clarinet that you have to try out for and gets a $250 scholarship, so I send a card and match that with $250 and hear nothing!!!
Even today, I stop by her house and neither my niece, nor my sister mention a thing about it. No thank you, nada. Not the first time either.
I'm sorta feeling like "you ungrateful little beyotch" but then again don't want to penalize my niece, who prolly doesn't know any better b/c she's never been taught to send thank yous for gifts.
and then there's the old "you don't have kids so you don't know what it's like" scenario I fear if I broach the topic with my sister. I so want to say, "hey, sis, ya know, this is kinda UN cool that the kids never acknowledge gifts."
So you're the parent, and you need to hear this, how to say it w/out her getting defensive?
Anyway, not sure how to handle this. Won't digress into the bizarre parenting of sis/weird bro-in-law as there's no abuse, etc, just weird. (hyper religous, kinda not very tidy -- but then again I aspire to be Monk so my opinion is prolly skewed :) )
So my 13 y/o niece gets accepted to a fine arts camp this summer for clarinet that you have to try out for and gets a $250 scholarship, so I send a card and match that with $250 and hear nothing!!!
Even today, I stop by her house and neither my niece, nor my sister mention a thing about it. No thank you, nada. Not the first time either.
I'm sorta feeling like "you ungrateful little beyotch" but then again don't want to penalize my niece, who prolly doesn't know any better b/c she's never been taught to send thank yous for gifts.
and then there's the old "you don't have kids so you don't know what it's like" scenario I fear if I broach the topic with my sister. I so want to say, "hey, sis, ya know, this is kinda UN cool that the kids never acknowledge gifts."
So you're the parent, and you need to hear this, how to say it w/out her getting defensive?