NOTE: I am not a doctor. I just have done a lot of reading on and investigating of mental health meds for personal reasons.
Effexor is known as an effective drug on some of the most serious depression...but it is ALSO known as a drug that once you get accustomed to, you CAN'T get off of. I.e. the discontinuation syndrome never really goes away. It's a BITCH to get off of, and a lot of people wish they'd never even been on it. Plus, it affects different neurotransmitters at different doseages...so you may not see a cessation of sexual side effects (which you may very well get with Effexor) until over some higher doseage. I don't know if you drink at all, but it's also VERY hard on your liver and alcohol processing. Frankly, from everything I've read and heard...Effexor seems like a last resort drug for some serious ass depression.
FWIW, I am on Lexapro and had zero sex drive and anorgasmia. My doc chose to have me try Wellbutrin XL along with it (at a low does) to try and combat some of the sexual side effects of the Lexapro, as well as some of the flat affect it gives me, and the weight gain. You may want to investigate other options before trying Effexor.
But you know, brains are funny things...everyne is different. I struggled for MONTHS on Lexapro with side effects etc...but had very few problems with Wellbutrin. You (or my brother or the guy down the street or the chick who delivers my groceries) may be totally opposite.
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