I choose not to have kids and, for the present time, not have a boyfriend/husband... and who knows if I will ever (frankly, I don't want to be “tied down” by someone who doesn't enjoy triathlon or, at the very least, distance running)?
I choose to have a career, to train and hang out with my kitties. And, of course, be extremely lazy when I'm not doing the aforementioned. When it comes to the mens, right now, I like to keep things pretty “casual” and you can say what you want about me changing my mind as I get older about having kids, but with every year that passes I want kids less and less.
I ask this because of the threads going on in the main forum. Some replies say, “the most important thing is family”. Is it? Or is that a comment made specifically for those who have chosen the family path and not meant to suggest that those of us who choose to do things over family are assholes?
I choose to have a career, to train and hang out with my kitties. And, of course, be extremely lazy when I'm not doing the aforementioned. When it comes to the mens, right now, I like to keep things pretty “casual” and you can say what you want about me changing my mind as I get older about having kids, but with every year that passes I want kids less and less.
I ask this because of the threads going on in the main forum. Some replies say, “the most important thing is family”. Is it? Or is that a comment made specifically for those who have chosen the family path and not meant to suggest that those of us who choose to do things over family are assholes?