RandMart wrote:
Would it be a gross over-simplification to say that most of the people who agree with Simone's decision are those who have first- or second-hand experience with anxiety or depression or other issues and are therefore more empathetic?
I'll bet that's certainly true.
I myself used to believe that depression and anxiety was only a state of mind that weak-minded people without self-discipline or grit could not overcome. After all, I felt I had endured countless hardships in my life, and I was tough enough to overcome them - you should be too!
Then I met my spouse, who is a top-performing Stanford-trained physician, top of her medical/residency school class, etc. Pretty much the highest level of performance you can get requiring maximal grit/toughness/stamina, as the medical field pretty much demanded it from her.
She ran into a phase of organic depression, and I was frankly shocked and literally could not comprehend what was going on whatsoever, as it defied all my understanding of what I felt was something I understood (depression). It had nothing to do with weakness, or lack of grit, and was utterly incapacitating (like can't even get out of bed to function.) I clearly was 100% completely wrong in my self-assessment of mental illness, and completely ignored the reality that organic illness can strike even healthy, high achieving people, and have literally nothing to do with their toughness, grit, or ability.
She fortunately overcame this completely, but only after over a year of intensive therapy, over which I came to know and respect mental illness from a much more accurate AND compassionate perspective. My viewpoint about it has done a 180 compared to my prior self.
I will also add, though, that I'm also 100% understanding of those that still feel depression is just a 'weak state of mind' and that you can 'grit your way through it'. It's simply near-impossible to fathom this reality of the situation unless you are confronted with it head-on either by yourself or someone you care deeply about. I could tell you all day about the facts of depression, and it wouldn't change your mind one bit about it, as it didn't change mine. If it weren't for my wife's experience, I guarantee 100% that i'd be 'that guy' that has low/no sympathy for people with depression or other mental illnesses. Doesn't mean that I'm a bad person, it's just that hard to wrap your head around without the requisite experience.
Suffice to say, I have the utmost respect, admiration, and sympathy for Simone Biles, who has to deal with it very publicly, and is forced the be the face of mental illness, likely at a time she least wants to be it.